What now?
By Blacksun310
@Blacksun310 (559)
Philippines
January 14, 2011 6:17am CST
Hey myLotters, I just want to ask for an advice for my friend. I'll be narrating the situation as if my friend was me. He is still studying.
I have crush. I've seeing her all day since the June of the previous year. Her smile, beauty and of course her personalities seems perfect for me. My main problem is that I couldn't express my feelings to her. I once had the chance. It was the first time we get to know each other. I had to choose which club should I join in. Me and my friend chose the Mathematics Club.
When we will be signing up, I was so surprised that the girl i like was the one who was in charge of the members' list. She introduced herself with me, and so did I. She wanted to have some handshake, i was so shy. But I didn't make it because my right hand held my sweaty handkerchief. I was afraid that I might turn her off. I really do regret that chance! 
During the club days, I observe her every move, speech and gestures. And that gave me more admiration. I was blushed when she borrowed my ballpen. We did some card tricks in our club. My crush teaches all who were confused about the trick. I wanted to be sit beside her also like the other students. That time, I didn't want to lose my chance anymore again. But suddenly the bell rang. Oh my! Another miss.
As days passed by we became close to each other--keeping my secret admiration. We tend to make each other laugh and tease like children. Until these last days, my other best friend had a crush on her also. Since I am still afraid to tell her the truth, my best friend took advantage. He didn't know that she was is my crush also.
He always, send her letters or chat with her in a way that I'll be jealous. The problem bout this situation is that I am also helping my best friend to court her; giving him a chance to gain the advantage. I am regretting all of this. I think I cannot stand not helping him because I am afraid again that he might became suspicious and know the truth.
He told me this a while ago. I cannot help him because I am not that passionated with love. I really want to help him. 
During the club days, I observe her every move, speech and gestures. And that gave me more admiration. I was blushed when she borrowed my ballpen. We did some card tricks in our club. My crush teaches all who were confused about the trick. I wanted to be sit beside her also like the other students. That time, I didn't want to lose my chance anymore again. But suddenly the bell rang. Oh my! Another miss.
As days passed by we became close to each other--keeping my secret admiration. We tend to make each other laugh and tease like children. Until these last days, my other best friend had a crush on her also. Since I am still afraid to tell her the truth, my best friend took advantage. He didn't know that she was is my crush also.
He always, send her letters or chat with her in a way that I'll be jealous. The problem bout this situation is that I am also helping my best friend to court her; giving him a chance to gain the advantage. I am regretting all of this. I think I cannot stand not helping him because I am afraid again that he might became suspicious and know the truth.
He told me this a while ago. I cannot help him because I am not that passionated with love. I really want to help him. 2 responses
@rainbowink (296)
• Philippines
14 Jan 11
If your friend is really friends with his other friend, then this other friend would understand if your friend told him the truth - that all this time, he was eyeing on the girl too.
He should have stepped up his game in the first place. He should have made a move to tell the girl he's feeling her. However, regrets doesn't make sense at this point.
Tell him having a crush on the same girl shouldn't make a hindrance in his friendship with his other friend.
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@Blacksun310 (559)
• Philippines
14 Jan 11
Well, the problem is that he is afraid to be teased and he don't want the word to spread. If my friend told his best friend about his admiration, the best friend might tell another friend which is very noisy in the classroom. 
