Would you really want to be the one?

Canada
January 15, 2011 9:24pm CST
Imagine yourself...now picture your best friend. If you saw his/her girlfriend/boyfriend cheating on that person...what would you do? Would you really want to be the one that told him/her and break their heart? What would you do?
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• Canada
16 Jan 11
for sure i would tell them! there would be no question about it. what kinda friend would you be. i wouldnt be mad at the friend that told me .... pfft drinks on me bud!!! lets break down the name "girlfriend/boyfriend.... both thoses words have one thing in common ... "friend" ive had my heart broken and im sure i have broken many hearts ... but you gotta hop back up on that horse and just keep on moving on.... so to finish up yes i would tell my "friend" that he was gettin the run around....of course thats just me!!!!
• Canada
16 Jan 11
Good for you...I would too! Would you confront the cheater and warn them first?
• Canada
16 Jan 11
LoL no i dont think i would. You warn them and you kinda give up your ace. They could call there better half and try and cover it up. Nope it would be a phone call to my friend right then and there.
@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
16 Jan 11
Oh dear, that's a real toughie. I mean my inner self would yell out "Yeah!!! Tell'em!!" but on the other hand, your friend may not believe you. I learned the hard way not to say anything anymore because people would just fly right into your face at the slightest provocation, it's not fair, but it's how people are nowadays. I'd definitely be tactful if I had hard evidence, though, or maybe just act concerned or watchful, and allow your best friend ask you what's bothering you.
• Canada
16 Jan 11
Yeah, having tact is definitely the best way when evidence is going to be given...it's a shock and nobody should ever have to go through it.
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@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
16 Jan 11
I wish you luck in helping out your friend with this relationship, don't stress too much, one step at a time.
• Philippines
17 Jan 11
Well it depends. If you really consider your best friend as a true friend. You would do whats best for him. That's what buddies do right? Look for each others back. Do what you think is right, so in that way you would not have any regrets. Cause you did what you think is right for your friend. It wouldn't be right if you just let her treated like that by some jerk.
• Canada
17 Jan 11
Yeah, friends first and feelings second. They'd end up even more hurt if the truth was found out some other way.
@rasshion (47)
• United States
16 Jan 11
I am a very protective person when it comes to my friends and family. I would have to tell them if I knew that they were being cheated on. I would feel bad having to do it but I know that I would want to know. Nobody has the right to hurt someone that they claim to love that way. I would be very angry to find out later that my friends knew that I was being cheated on and didn't say anything about it.
• Canada
16 Jan 11
Yeah, it would almost feel like your friends are on the cheaters side.