Issues that Women Keep from Men and Vice-versa
By Lance26
@Lance26 (956)
Philippines
January 16, 2011 10:10am CST
Communication is really important factor into relationships. We all know it. But with that alone is not enough to survive it should be coupled with love and understanding. However, no matter how hard we try to make the communication's open still there are issues we tend to keep from our partner as there are times that they're not in a mood to talk or simply don't want to talk about it. I don't know if we may call this thought of an understanding due to the intention of not putting them out of their comfort zone or a sign of disrespect or being selfish because of not letting them know. If I would be in the opposite shoes and as understanding as my partner, then I will be able to see her pure intentions.
Is there any issues that you keep from your partner? What are the things do you think that our partner no need to know?
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2 responses
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
17 Jan 11
My husband and i always keep our lines of communications open to each other. But one thing that i hide from him is telling him that i bought another pair of shoes ,or clothes or other luxury item because he will surely say , you already have plenty of those. LOL ANyway, it's my money i spend , not his. LOL
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
18 Jan 11
THere won't be any open secret between a couple, and even anybody. Sometimes, some things are better left unsaid than to it leading to more misunderstanding. Things might be out of our control, and what people see is not the reality yet they believe in it. Try as we explained it, they refused to listen, and what can we do? Many of our trust is based on what we see instead of what we feel. IF our partner don't trust us in the right way, whatever we say is not going to help, but make it worse.
