How old are you going to get married?
By gengeni
@gengeni (3308)
Indonesia
8 responses
@kendedes2011 (2712)
• Indonesia
19 Jan 11
ahahaha, I also feel worried about that .. lol.
I think anytime a mouthful of age at that very moment we really ready physically and mentally.
ready to be called mother by our children.
ready to bear the burden, responsible, do not think something comfortable, because it may not always bring good marriage, but must be strong in the face of obstacles.
@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
1 Feb 11
Yes, but that's life, we do not know what will happen tomorrow and the future, even today we have found the best person for us, maybe one day he turned into the person who hurt us, people who actually become a hero to we are not necessarily the best for us.
@kendedes2011 (2712)
• Indonesia
25 Jan 11
Lol, at my age already exceeds twenty, I'm not afraid to get married, but I'm afraid if you marry the wrong person.
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@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
9 Jun 11
It is really not about the age but the maturity that a person has which matters most when deciding to get married. There are people who are old but have the maturity of an 18 year old.
The decision to get married is also influenced by the priorities set by the person. Those who want to have a more stable life for their future family would tend to marry at a later age when they are already settled with their careers and has enough money to sustain a better future for their family. While those who really want to raise kids tend to marry at a much younger age. It is easier to have children when you are younger than when you are older.
Still, what is important in any marriages is that it is founded by love and the couples will try their best to work hard to make the marriage work.
@rifnee (1713)
• Indonesia
26 Jan 11
23 numbers are good for women. at least 25 for men.
but that should be targeted not the age, but the preconditions for marriage.
1). maturity.
psychologically every person reaches maturity at different ages, but 23 years may be generally categorized as an adult.
2). economic establishment.
though not absolute, but no less important. for men is very important to have a steady job with sufficient income. for women means their partners must consider the economic establishment. should not be taken lightly, since most because divorce is a matter of economics.
3). parental support.
for me, the blessing of the parents is absolutely necessary.
hopefully help.
@aralashma (19)
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17 Jan 11
For me the age is not important, the most important is the preparedness of entering marriage. In Scientific, they say you should get married from 18-25 years old because it is the ages that you think of a perfect happy family and also you feel the love. For pregnancy, you must be between 25-35. all that staff but I prefer that you are ready for the responsibilities first before entering family life.
@emilieyang (94)
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30 Jan 11
I think it should be before I am 28. As you know, giving birth to the first child after30 will be much difficult than before
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
22 Jan 11
I never make the target, how old I am married. I live my life, just like that without a target. I married at age 21, actually I was not feeling ready to get married. But after marriage, I felt a married life without any difficulty. Although now, I'm troubled marriage. I was never one to take decisions, to get married at age 21.
@nakula2009 (2325)
• Indonesia
26 Jan 11
I do not know your religion but according to my religion of people who want to get married should be an adult or so-called puberty. words are not ready because they can not feed it's just an excuse. not luck, mate and die in the hands of God. so why have to wait if we have enough age to get married.