Betrayed by Love or Betrayed by Good Friend?

@gengeni (3308)
Indonesia
January 17, 2011 9:24am CST
When I was dating, thousands of affectionate words spoken, When love has been betrayed, a thousand curses on the catapult. Which is more painful, Betrayed by a lover, or Betrayed by a good friend?
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• Romania
17 Jan 11
It's the same pain. We build our shield to protect ourselves to be hurt by people. Sometimes we trust people around, we start to love them (love is the same). The shield is going down, offcourse. Betrayal happens and boom! We get hurt. Time will solve everything. The truth is always in the middle of 2 parties. Don't forget, you don't have the entire truth, you need to find out the other side truth, too, for the time to solve something. :)
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@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
17 Jan 11
Yes you are right, the truth must be sought, and may be tricky to find the truth in a situation like this.
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21 Jan 11
It depends on the quality of your friend or lover. If they have been connected to you for a long time then they are such a lost to you even if they have betrayed you. It is so hard to find a trusted one only to find out that you have been betrayed.
@rifnee (1713)
• Indonesia
19 Jan 11
We are indeed very DIFFERENT. Suppose you flowers, that I was the pest... Betrayed by both of them are sick, but not too much. If that is the person who was loved If that is the person who was loved, he will never try to treason, right? so, if he betrayed, it means he does not love us. leave it alone, there are many others.
• Indonesia
18 Jan 11
More painful is betrayed by a good friend. because, really good friend is hard to find and rarely anyone wants to be our good friends. but, if the betrayed lover, not too painful. point, there are still many people out there who might later become our lovers. right?
• Indonesia
18 Jan 11
love may come and go, but friends are always in my heart. boyfriend easy to find, just look for a handsome, approaches, and then wait for shot, going together. but hard to find my friend, my friend was one among the 100 people we know. then, if for example we are breaking the same boyfriend, nobody hold our friend, who is going to try our chat? my friend right? If my friend do not exist, where do we go? to a lover? precisely boyfriend was number two after my friend .. and that must be done when your buddy has gone: 1. your fault. if you are wrong, try to make introspection first, show them to your chum, that if you're not as bad as she thought. after that, you just got to apologize. 2. Do not let go just like that, it is hard to find friends.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
21 Jan 11
hi, for me i think the most painful is betrayed by a lover, because we could find many friends, but a lover is only one and couldn't find it again.