what women wants from men
By spencari
@spencari (265)
Indonesia
6 responses
@Catana (735)
• United States
17 Jan 11
What a woman wants from *her* man is different for everyone. Many women want things like flowers, birthday cards, dining out, and other things that never interested me. Sometimes women want things that their men can't provide, maybe because they're too expensive or it's just not something that man would do. Every relationship is different. There's no point expecting something that a man isn't willing or able to give, or in trying to change him so that he will satisfy your desires.
@Catana (735)
• United States
18 Jan 11
I don't have to think about what I *would* do, because the man I married wasn't like that. And he knew I wasn't interested in that kind of thing, so he didn't bother. If he didn't know me well enough to understand that, I probably wouldn't have married him. I know that some people say that flowers, etc., help keep a relationship alive, but that's only true if it was part of the relationship to start with. Did we have a good marriage without all that extra stuff? You bet. Almost 40 years. Flowers and romantic dinners are like icing on the cake. If the cake is good enough, you don't need icing.
@sweetgarg (392)
• India
17 Jan 11
what a women want?
i think most important think is love ,trust ,passion.
and one more thing that i have experienced is let them do the things that they want to do dont try to suppress them
@elenacosor (13)
• Romania
17 Jan 11
To be perfect, to bring me whatever I want, whenever I want. To be beautiful, big muscles, funny, to listen to me every time I talk and not to fall asleep in 3 minutes. Wait! Where's the real one? At work... lol I'm all alone dreaming. It's not a question of what a woman want. The question is what do a man and a woman want to do/build together (my husband is a constructor oops!).
@Kalyni2011 (3496)
• India
19 Jan 11
I am 58 now, my experience says, all we need is honesty, transparency in relationship, no polygamy of any kind.
well taking care of family members, running a home sweet home is naturally expected..
thanks for this discussion
cheers
happy mylotting
kalyani
@shrijsr (574)
• Bangalore, India
17 Jan 11
Well, if you truly look into the demands of a women, then you can find only Love, trust, care, a little pampering, protective and most importantly, her man should give her enough time to spend it with her.
I don't think that there is anything more that a girl will ask for in her man!
But, other than all these, i'll ask for my man to get angry on me if I go wrong somewhere. This makes me feel that, yes, my guy feels responsible for me and he is not going away and he is not thinking to use his rights on me! I just love the feeling of being owned by my man! :)