People say that time will heal everything......

well, an interesting topic. I personally don't believe in this so called sentence called, "Time will heel everything...." At most time can do to a person is to make the person forget something or someone who has hurt him/her. But then, time can never be so successful about doing that too. Sometime in your life, you will certainly feel like looking into your past. When you do so, certainly, you will come through the same things which hurt you. The scars remain the same in your life. Just that you have forgotten, but its not mended! The memories and regrets and feelings wave across you for a while, then you make your mind consoling yourself that, things had to happen, it happened and I need to accept that fact that I can't do anything about it. You let the memories go the way it wants to and then again lose yourself with your present day! It is never heeled, just that we forget. But one day, these things will again trigger itself again! Just to hurt you again!

Time is a great healer but you must also think positive and take your mind from the normal things you were doing with the person and start new things you enjoy yourself.

Hi sweetgarg, People have said it correctly that time heals everything. This, however should not be taken into thinking that time heals every wound. The thing is like you are sad and dejected today and this condition of yours can not continue for a long time as you have to be yourself again. So as time passes off you get out of the mood and slowly the wheels of life starts moving. But those wounds could recur but the impact is not so heavy as it was in the beginning.

Greetings! For me its true. As time passes, I forgot my ex boyfriend without doing something. I just let things to happen. I didn't try anything to get him out of my mind. I just do things that I must prioritized and I was surprised to realize that I don't love him anymore. Anyway, it was a year ago. :) Time can really heal wounds. :)

Time does not heal everything, and I have the scars to prove it. Although, the common practice among doctors to tell a worried mother when her small child has a fever that she should give him some mild over-the-counter infant medication and call in the morning if he is not better is solidly based. The mother follows directions and obviously the medication worked because the child is better in the morning. What the physician did not tell her is that nearly everything is better in the morning. Our bodies are much better at healing themselves than any physician ever born.

Its a logical statement yet if you expect time to do all the work, THAT is where you go wrong. One of the greatest gifts in our life is our FREEDOM TO CHOOSE. If we forgo this precious endowment and depend upon other factors such as 'time' to heal us, we will stay stagnant in our states of depression. With our freedom to choose, we can easily CHOOSE to be happy, CHOOSE to think about the good things of the past, CHOOSE to enjoy the good things of the present and CHOOSE to hope the best for the future. Hope this helps.

I guess that depends on your willingness to actually let this memory of the person move on. If you dwell on them then it will take so much more time to actually get over them. If you have really loved someone and then the memory will always be there of the time that you shared. But you have to build up the strenght to actually let them go so you can move on. Its not fair to yourself to keep caught up over someone that is not in your life.