virginity

hi junior! now a days you can just recognize a small amount of girl's who are virgin because it is a new generation today, aggressive and many more if you have a girlfriend or boyfriend who is not virgin then just respect him/ her because we cannot say that i don't like you because your are not virgin, it is not a good reason right? once virginity is lost we cannot bring it back anymore

I strongly suggest you not to give that much important to virginity. The important thing is your love for her and her love for her. Just make sure that you both are committed and truthful to each other. I know its very difficult to take such things in relationship. It doesn't feel good to know that person you love was sleeping with someone else. But, look at her faith towards that person. She may be right at that time. I personally feel, that loosing virginity before marriage is wrong thing.

If you care for her enough I don'think it should matter! It is not the same as if she had been sleeping with various different people it was just one other person who she maybe cared for? x

I don't mean to be rude but I think men who feel that way until now are the kind who lives with their mom.I'm so sorry, I just don't get it, I am not a feminist but I really don't like when men say something like that, if you were in the girl's shoes and she tells you that she is disappointed with you because you are no longer a virgin, how would you feel? virginity doesn't matter anymore, yes it is important but with the generation that we have right now, it doesn't really matter to them.I hope you learn to respect your girlfriend's situation, and to think that men just wanted to get under the skirt and talking about virginity and values virginity I wanna laugh at men,its a humorous one.

Ya its very important.Wat is meaning of Love then? Ones love must come from true care and affection in all kind of situation.If he/she is loving truly means he/she wants to overcome such situation and makes understanding each other about the needs.

for me it's actually normal these days.. as long as the important thing is to respect each other, putting every past behind and starting a new beginning in your relationship.. :)

I don't think that it is important. The past does not truly matter. All that matters is the present. If a couple loves each other, then it does not matter what they have done before they met. All that is important in life is love.

to me it doesnt matter whether she is a virgin or not,, each person needs to enjoy life and if she chose to enjoy it by loosing her virginity before i met her,,i will love her the way she is,, afterall virginity is just a one day thing and after that its gone forever,,what will you be doing the rest of your life if she was a virgin and starts cheating on you later on in life? trust and faithfulness is what matters treat her right and if you have shown her the disappointment go out there and apologize like a gentleman would do!

just respect her for that,, i am a girl too and i know what it feels when your boyfriend is disappointed at me just because i'm not a virgin anymore,, love her true, and dont make her feel that you're disappointed with her state,, it makes a woman feel criticized when someone is disappointed at her, especially when it coms to virginity

Well, when it comes to virginity, I personally feel that it is very important for a person to be right! I'm very sure that I won't face such situation by god's grace! Thanks to the almighty! Well, if at all I face such a situation, then i would for sure be disappointed. I hope you come out of this soon! Cheers! Happy Mylotting!

If a woman lost her virginity, it simply means that she trusted the person so much that she doesn't even care on her own good. But then, after all, a man just uses woman. Men treat them like a toy. If you really love your girlfriend, you will not do it again to her. If you love her too much, you have to respect her. UNDERSTAND HER and YOU SHOULD ACCEPT HER WHATEVER SHE IS.