Have you ever seen your man cry?
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
United States
19 responses
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
19 Jan 11
hello,
I have seen my man cried in front of me as in front of many people. It happened many times. I dont even know what to do because we have misunderstanding that time . But when I seen him every time he would cry I will fix it right away because I dont like other people seen him crying. LOL
3 people like this
@shashusmart (72)
• India
19 Jan 11
man can cry but boys cant cry, as depicted by the most famous quote- boys dont cry:)
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
20 Jan 11
Wrong! A real man can cry and boys , especially young boys Do cry.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
20 Jan 11
Yes...several times....last Christmas when he got a Fran Tarkenton jersey from his sister who lives in Germany...he couldn't even figure out how she knew that it was what he had wanted for so long...also at his graduation from college...the same sister gave him a picture of his grandpa sitting on his tank in WWII....it was a picture he had wanted for so long, ...well his wife says to him....she could give you a rock and you would cry....it's because they (him and his sister) just love each other so much and are so in tune to one another....I don't think it hurts for a man to cry...sometimes they need to just as much as we do!
1 person likes this
@markroderick (888)
• Philippines
21 Jan 11
Of course guys do cry. Some would say if a guy cries it just one of the signs that he is weak. But for it's not I really don't judge a guy because he cried. But instead it is one of his ways to show the world that he is also human. And he is just being honest when it comes to his emotions.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
21 Jan 11
Real men Do cry. Only non men think they do not! But just because a guy or girl does not cry , just means they stoic, and that is ok.I think it all depends on how a person expresses emotion.
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
19 Jan 11
Hi, Sarah.
Yes, i have seen my hubby, then boyfriend, cried a lot of times.
He cried a lot that I started thinking he was a crying man.
He cried when I told him I was leaving him, he cried when he asked forgiveness and it seemed that I couldn't forgive him, he cried when I cried.
It did not dawn upon me that we were meant for each other or will end up with each other because he was crying , but, we did. Maybe, the thought of losing me, then, was unbearable for him. :D
That was then. Now, I don't see him shed a tear or two. I'd love to make him cry or see him cry again because of me. :)
Yes, i have seen my hubby, then boyfriend, cried a lot of times. He cried a lot that I started thinking he was a crying man.
He cried when I told him I was leaving him, he cried when he asked forgiveness and it seemed that I couldn't forgive him, he cried when I cried.
It did not dawn upon me that we were meant for each other or will end up with each other because he was crying , but, we did. Maybe, the thought of losing me, then, was unbearable for him. :D
That was then. Now, I don't see him shed a tear or two. I'd love to make him cry or see him cry again because of me. :)2 people like this
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
19 Jan 11
My husband usually do when he watch a heart-breaking story on TV. I usually tease him about it. I really can't forget the last time he cried, because we really had a bad fight and I said this is the end for us. So, he cried and beg to give him another chance. I'm not totally heartless so we agreed to make the relationship work.
1 person likes this
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
26 Jan 11
Well we are working things out. In fact, it was our 6th year anniversary yesterday.
1 person likes this
@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
21 Jan 11
It seems that I haven't seen my husband cried yet. But one day when we watched a TV program about a famous headmaster in the past. I wondered whether my husband's eyes were full of tears at that time. I dared not to look at him at that time as I was afraid he would be embarrassed.
I love China
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
20 Jan 11
My guy hasn't either. I asked him Does he cry and he said yes. I feel he would cry in front of me.
I answered your discussion in place of my girlfriend. LOL.@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
20 Jan 11
Good! Real men Do cry! Thanks for your response.
1 person likes this
@Laychie07 (11)
• Philippines
21 Jan 11
I haven't seen my man cry, i hope i will even once.. :-)
I once saw him teary eyed but the tears didn't fall,
Maybe it is just because he is not that showy.
1 person likes this
@NoWayRo (1061)
• Romania
19 Jan 11
Several times, and several men - but it was always because some other woman made them cry, and they came to me to seek understanding. (I'm not even that kind of understanding and supportive person, but I seem to attract drama like a magnet.) So, I dare say Yahoo is wrong. Plus I'm pissed with it today, it announced me that 15 million people share my birthday... way to make me feel special, Yahoo.
1 person likes this
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
20 Jan 11
You Are special! It wouldn't matter if have the world had your birthday!
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
19 Jan 11
Nice question, it made me reminisce all the years with my husband.
I discovered that since we got married, i haven't seen him cry. Not ever.
But my daughter said, while i was in a far city from them, working, he saw his Papa shed a tear as they watched a movie in the TV, the Renaissance Man. She said that was the part when Robin williams was saying goodbye to her human wife.
I guess, it touched him so much.
1 person likes this
@tanyamean (295)
• Philippines
19 Jan 11
this is interesting.. My hubby cried infront of me..I think its rare to see men cry ..crying is like an ego trigger to them..So when I hubby cried, my heart is deeply flattered that he doesn't mind crying for me.
1 person likes this
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
20 Jan 11
The article said this means he is comfortable being vulnerable in front of you. That is a great sign! Take care.
@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
19 Jan 11
A few times, when something reminds my husband of what he did in Viet Nam, and the fact that his son went and joined the friggen Marine corps!!! Come on, it doesn't take a military career to make a man. Thank GOD we learned that the kid's in Japan, not in Afghanistan, or Iraq.
1 person likes this
@pollytoast (195)
•
19 Jan 11
My husband is not the type to cry often but he did shed a couple of tears when I was in labor with my son as I was in so much pain even after all the painkillers I had been given, he had never seen me like that before and after almost 40 hour of it he shed a couple of tears.
1 person likes this
@lizmik143 (137)
• Philippines
19 Jan 11
The only time I saw my boyfriend cry was when we prayed for our relationship, our careers, and our goals in life. He embraced me tightly after that prayer. He had tears when he said thank you to me after that prayer.
