Serious question, would who date a girl that has been with lots of men?

You have already mention that girl is hanging with lot of guys thats not a big issue some time if she is god in nature but little bit flirty but as you have mentioned she hide so many things and lied about her past relation then it is confirm that she is not a good kind of girl and I will definitely hang with her but not seriously,just for fun

The decision of staying with someone who has as you say truck load of guys in the past is all up to you. If that happens in the PAST before she met you, then there's nothing you can do about it. If you love her you can accept whatever transpired in her life before she met you. You said that she lied about her past and you found out from someone the truth, have you asked her why didn't she tell you directly all those things? And if you did, and you didn't like the answer and you preferred to have a relationship with a virgin, then off you must or else you will be miserable.

if they were up only to sleep with them then they are the type of girls that will probably to cheat when they have a chance now if they fall in love and were in relationships to gain experience that means they were seeking and it's not bad at all a good way to know a girl is to see if she sleeps from the 1st to 5th date, they are probably addicted to sleep with men or easy girls that probably don't respect their selves

In my opinion everyone has standards. But what matters is if you care about the person. Because if you do then it no longer matters. You would accept her; both her good traits as well as the things you might not find nice about her.

I am in the same opinion as you...I believe virginity is the most important aspect in my future wife...Although they are a rare breed in this modernizing world, but it has been in my must-have list...I believe that kind of girl still exist, although it is like finding a needle in a haystack...Nevertheless, if I found out that my girl is not anymore that 'godlike', I would rather find another one...I believe that if a girl cannot care about herself, how can she care about me, and more her children? And if she lied, and I found out, that will be certainly the end of us...

I'd never prefer a dating a girl who has made out with guys before.Because every time I would be touching her,I'll have the feeling that someone has already touched her and would be imagining how someone would have touched her.This would happen even if I don't want to think about this.....

I've never understood this line of thinking. How many women do you know would turn a man down that had been with a "truckload" of other women in his past? Not very many. How many women complain about a man's virginity? I've never heard this being important to women. I wouldn't be the type of person to sleep around with a bunch of people but I think their past is the past. I guess I'd have to be a man to understand this.

We are already in the modern world.Only 1 out of 10 women now are considered conservative.It's all up to you if you can still accept her once you've found out that she had flirted before with other guys.Your decision will depend on how much you love her.If you can help her change for the better and do not flirt with other guys,do it.If she did not follow,and she still do it, and decided to leave you,it will come to a point that she would realize your worth the things you've done for her.

Hiya trader, It could be that she really does like you and only wants to go out with you. She might well have settled down so to speak. I have had, not Friends but casual Friends who started out like that and then they settled down and became much more serious. I think to them it´s like going through a stage of growing pains so to speak. However that´s only my opinion. I would give her a chance and wait a while and see listen to your own heart and see what it tells you.

I was just like your girlfriend. But my boyfriend loves me so much that he could not let me go. So he sat down with me and i changed my way of living. i am a christian now and love my man so much. his relatives got to know about my past and now they do not want to see me with him at all. but i tell you we love each other. Its better to suffer and be with the person u love at the end than to marry someone u do do not love and always have the one u love in ur mind. talking from experience u will be happy someday juss having kids with the one u love and spending the rest of ur life together. take it from me. A SMOOTH ROAD IS NOT ALWAYS THE BEST

if I experienced anything like you maybe I'll change my mind just to admire it not to seriously relate to her because of things like that is not the type you are jealous and territorial and will become a bad relationship and it would hurt because he knew many men who filled one truck and complaint to the right guys to bring us to the problem just because the nature of the bad as well

hey trader, good question to discuss. As you wrote that you a guy who feel jealous very soon then you will not prefer but only in case when you think about that person a lot. means you want to be very special person in that person's life than you will feel so otherwise i will ok for you. I have been will many of my friends who go for date with lot of their friends, but i do not put any impact on me. As i donot want to be very special in their life. Thanks

You discovered friend;you are crushed.I know; I had been there.Back when i learned the girl I dated for two years was having intimate relations outside ours,it broke me.Angry, I asked "Why?" She could not respond.We cooled off.Over many campfires with pals, co-workers and families,I learned-painfully-to unlearn.Lying causes pain. Being truthful bounds both lovers to accept responsibility for each, and the commitment it extends.Any unfaithful keeping secret affairs practices deepest deception of all: self deceit,and is his/her worst enemy.Your liar is aware of the price for guilt,guilt that exacts,and fear of being shamed and revealed.You can only be serious with such person if she reaches for a truly serious compromise to change for the best towards possible re-integration of lost trust.Other than that, suspicion prevails,hurt exists and emotions distorted. When it can't be done, cut and cut clean. The only way you can be free of this inner conflict is to regain your emotional integrity and unburden yourself of the truth upon you. What matters is the compromise for what you want done and the happiness you will find in other women who value your being.