My friend treats me like crap

hi there. i think if you can't just talk to her about this issues,u need to do something real to stop but not just talking. u need to calm down and ignore her for 2 weeks or even longer. If she still can't feel how important u r as her good friend then u need to walk away. because she doesn't deserve your friendship.

I don't get it either, but I do not think you will be able to let it keep on like this. Eventually you will be so hurt that your heart will fill with anger and resentment. This will only be bad for you. Your friend's behavior is not right. I think you need to speak honestly with her about how it makes you feel. If you can make some discussion happen, you might get a hint of why she is acting that way. It could be that she is mad at you, or jealous of you in some way. Hope you can get it cleared up.

I hate to break it to you - but Kaycharmed! she is not your "friend" a friend supports you even if they think you're crazy! They don't to you like that or about you like that. It's not a healthy relationship and I say just walk away and never look back!

you should not allow someone to talk to you that way, specially when it already hurts your feelings.

There is no use in hating her, she will still treat you like that, and hatred does not help you in anyway, it might even make you feel worse. So to be honest, you need to tell her that her behaviour is unacceptable (I know it is hard, but you need to!) and if she still does not change, you can't be her friend anymore. No friend should talk to you like that, ever! She may have her issues and treating you like this may make her feel better, but that is not your problem! You need to put yourself first and make sure you feel apprechiated by your friends!

Boy, you sure hang on to friends longer than I do! These people are dust behind me so I can live a rich, full life! Even if they change their personality after we became friends I have to let them go. I have too many things going on in my life to make room of garbage. Sorry.

Hi! This discussion reminds me of me. I do talk trash to my friends but they no that I don't truly mean it and it is my way of joking around with them. I know sometimes I can be irritating but because they are so used to it, they end up laughing at my insulting jokes. I know that it is not right to be that way so I am trying to control this bad behavior before I could truly hurt somebody and damage a relationship. I think that your friend would eventually learn to control this and if not, the result will be obvious and it will be bad for her. I just hope it wouldn't reach that point though.

When she shrugged you off, she was letting you see who she really is. She is not your friend, even when things are going good between the two of you, it's not real for her. Please get out of this damaging relationship as soon as possible. Life is too short for all that negativity. Surround yourself with people who you feel good about and who make you feel good about yourself.

First of all, this girl that you are talking about is not your friend. At least not right now. Unless she opens up to you and talks to you about why she feels the need to treat you the way she does, she will not be a true friend. A friend shows kindness and respect. Have you honestly asked her if she is listening to the way she talks to you? Maybe she doesn't realize what she's doing. If you have a tape recorder, record how she talks. Then let her hear herself. Hopefully she won't get mad at you for that too. If none of this works, then maybe it's time to find a new friend.

I don't know why you can describe her as a good friend of yours. Does treating you the way she does is like a good friend? And I don't know for how long yoú've been with her with such attitude, how long have tolerated the way she treats you. For sure she's really that upsetting for even you who claimed her friend got piss of with her attitude. Maybe you're being a friend to her, but doesh she claim herself as a friend to you? Think about that. Friendship is not a concept of humiliating, or treating someone the way she does. You can find friends better than her. Why do you have to tolerate what she's doing? Accept whatever she's saying to you?. And you're right, she's driving you crazy and probably that's what she thinks, that she can say whatever she want, for you are there still besides her. If you love her as a friend, let go off her to let her feel of having no one besides her, no one to accept her horrible attitude. She has the guts of uttering such bad words, because you are there to listen and she taught that is is okey with you. Think about it, besides this is just my opinion. You are the one who knows her.

Hi dear, I don't know how she is. If she is extremely open and and heart to heart they will talk like that. Also, some are come with such comments whenever they feel like they are superior and you have certain short comings. Also, it can be because of jealous, her proud, her own superior complex, etc. would lead to such tendencies. There are few easy way out from here. Don't give chance to tell more on her. You have to accept what you said is correct. If you yourself de-motivate, they she will supersede you and you will be always like this. You should argue with her if you are correct. Whenever you become low, they will win. So, you should have confidence in yourself and you should have the power to veto her commands. Atleast for the sake of the subject you should not leave the subject and never give a chance to overrule. In our office, there is a manager like this. He will do/say as many blunders. If we support him, he will be so happy. Also, he never accept what we say. Recently he bought a new mobile phone with 5 mega pixel camera. He was just praising and talking too much with that I got fed up with his lecture. I said, I my mobile is having 12.1 mega pixel camera, he started saying all such things are so delicate, it will get damaged immediately, the quality is so poor, we won't get good pictures, etc etc. Such people really needed on the spot answers. So, you learn special lessons to how to handle such people. Don't leave them. Give the 'best treatment' to them and one day they will understand. I think you got what I mean, and behave accordingly. You can take her in your hands, soon. All the best, Thank-s

to me she sounds jealous of you and its her way of dealing with it. if she carries on though i would tell her straight and get rid of her as she isnt that good of a friend if she treats and talks to you the way she does.

she is not avoiding you, even though she is thinking you are a crap,that means she is good friend.but i think short tempered too,instead of abusing about her feelings about you,better think your self that "what is wrong with you",you told that she unsupported in the traveling thing you asked,there may be some reason in financial point of view. after reading your discussion,i can surly tell that it is just a misunderstanding.there is some thing wrong with you,change your self you want respect from her other wise leave her.there is no better solution other than that.

How can you say that she's a good freind of yours when she treats you like you say she does.a freind is supportive caring and nice.if you think a freind is supposed to bad mouth you well by almeans be her freind.but if i were you,i wouldnt be freinds with tht person.you already confronted her,and it didnt change anything.you already done your part,now she should have done hers.

We are trying our level best to give pure friendship to them, We are always thinking about them only, We have special feelings and memories on our friends. On the other hand, they are not thinking about us, They are giving importance to others, not to our feelings. Although we are trying to show our friendship, unfortunately, its depends on their behaviour only. It is better to see the taste of friendship by doing friendship with who are really have interest on Us....only. Practically i am facing this situation.

Talk about being full of yourself. Haha! She definitely is full of herself. There are people who are like that. It's amazing how they get friends. I'm no hypocrite. I am full of myself too, and I sometimes give nasty side comments, but I know my friends don't take it negatively, cause I always apologize when I say it (after a few days of saying it). I also shower them with complements when it's due. If you can't live with her attitude then stop being with her. It should be an eye-opener for the both of you :)

greetings! there are always 2 sides to a story so just to give your friend the benefit of the doubt, have you done something lately to annoy her? perhaps it's just her way of getting even with you? if you know that you didn't do her anything wrong, then i guess it's time to part ways. you're not responsible for her actions and everything she says or does is a reflection of her true character. save yourself from all the drama and just move on.