One Sided Love
By maria1081
@maria1081 (1251)
Philippines
January 19, 2011 11:09am CST
Once or many times in our lives we had experience or have been experiencing one sided love. The feeling sometimes is hopeless and hurtful. I met this guy not so long ago, I admire him for his looks. But beyond those looks he is something more, something deeper. He is somehow they say a complete package, with good looks and good personality. I never nourish the felings I have with him knowing that I cant compete with other girls. Not so long ago we started communicating with each other over facebook, exchange numbers and email address. He’s in Dubai right now and working.
There was one time he asked me if I have someone special, I said no and he joke that he could be the one. A joke that I took seriously, though I kept it only by myself hoping that it will come true. But I know one sided love wont be easy. Sometimes its hopeless and oftentimes painful. Days passed and I realized that its not right to depend on him for my happiness, love will find me someday and somehow.
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4 responses
@783748 (178)
• Philippines
16 May 11
I agree that one-sided love really hurts. However, we really should not let this take away our chance to be happy. If both of you are meant for each other, then love will find it's way. Hope we all find that one true love that we have long been waiting for.
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
28 Jan 12
I agree.. The right guy will come in our life in the right time so she must not let one sided love take away her happiness. Maybe in the future this guy will also like her in the way that she want him to love her. She must try to be happy now without him..
@Bianca_mergillano (1067)
• Philippines
19 Jan 11
Greetings!
I also know how it feels. It feels so hard but I agree that love will come and find you someday, somehow. The more we push ourselves to our love, the more they go away. I just realized it. Well here's my story. After my boyfriend broke up with me, I have met some guys and I've met someone that I like then as time passes, I realized that I love him. I told him about my feelings but then it was nothing for him. At first he's also joking about our status but then he also considered as a joke when I told him about my feelings. How sad for me. That's why I guess I have to wait for my special someone. I don't have to push myself. Love will come unexpectedly.
@akangirl (2436)
• India
1 Feb 11
Yeah one sided love is very painful and quite hard to bear.I also did a one sided love in my life.Actually this love was serious hard blow to me and because of this i have decided to never let myself fall in love with any man ever again.Actually after two year of depression over my long distance relationship breaking with my ex boyfriend i decided to work again, my cousin helped me in getting a job at retail brand as a retail executive though it was lower than my before position as an admin in previous workplace but two year long gap from work doesn't look good in resume.I gave three interview rounds, got cleared and was told to work on training basis at their other store till the new store opens for which i was selected.i met my would be manager and got along real good with him.He had a previous experience of 5 years in retail so i used to love to hear about his experiences, he taught me how to deal with different type of customers, very helping always.After 10 days we were told to come to head office for further training about our brand.We went to head office regularly for 3 days.He used to pick me and drop me back.I started developing a soft corner for him.Then our store opened, new staff came we all got along very nicely.Other staff used to treat me like their own sister and as i was the only girl there i felt pampered, you know the feeling being top of world and everything seems to be in our favor.He used to always comment how good i am looking, sometime used to say i am sexy and i noticed that he used to look at me in different kind of way now.There was something in his eyes which used to make me feel so alive.I had a habit of reading horoscope everyday at morning tea break.So one day there was horoscope saying that you have met your perfect match and he is around you, you need to just look around.I jokingly shared this with him and he said he is standing infront of you. After that we started flirting and little bit happened also.But my biggest shock came when one day a friend of his came to store and i got to know that his friend was my cousins ex boyfriend and they were just trying to take revenge upon me.How can anybody be so cruel.He suddenly changed, made my life hell.I was a fool.I will never love guy ever after this.I am scared of going out of home now.My cousin and friends keep calling me but i don't attend their call.I feel so stupid, don't know who trust now.I am better alone whole life rather than dying like this.Worst thing is that i still think about him
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
28 Jan 12
I think you must learn how to become happy without him. I agree one sided love really hurt because most of the time we expect for nothing because they don't have the same feeling for us. I think the right guy will come to your life one day so i can advice to try to move on and have fun hang out with your friends.Happy Mylotting..