Why do people think that i dont care about them? :(
By denydungrani
@denydungrani (359)
India
January 20, 2011 9:40am CST
why do people think that i am least caring. Just because i dont help them everytime? Is it neccessary to help your friend everytime just to prove that you are a true friend? :(
3 responses
@lollypopppp (85)
• India
20 Jan 11
It doesn't mean like that ,but friends always needs us to stand with them at every situation.caring doesn't mean doing great things.
Its in even small things like
just send messageto ur friend whether she/he ate?
wait for them ,allow them to share their views,explain your situation when you are busy .be in contact.misunderstanding always happens in all relationships but in friendship we cannot break up .
@denydungrani (359)
• India
20 Jan 11
Exactly! I try to be with them everytime they need me. But i cannot help them sometimes even if i want coz its practically not possible. And i never ever tried to break up with them but they all left. May be it was my fault. :(
@khalida (1126)
• India
21 Jan 11
probably you should be more expressive about what you feel towards your friends. sometimes, when you are helpless you can tell them how much you want to help them. This shows that you care and are willing to help all the time. try doing this.
also try to understand or figure out what your friends actually expect from you. some of them might expect little things while others expect more serious things.
But don't get so involved with what others want cause a good friend will accept you the way you are even with your minor or major faults.
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
3 Feb 11
I think really people do expect way too much. They do have a warped definition of caring. Really, there are going to be sometimes where you are not going to be around. Therefore, what are they going to do then? Sometimes not helping, can be helping in a strange way. You know, by not helping, you can help other people, help themselves.
I think that there is some greed in this world, where people think that you should help them for every little thing. Then they pull the, you don't care, pity card, that really does in fact get on my nerves a lot of the time. Really, life is going to harsh and if you really need the help, I may be inclined to help you, but not every single time.
@sekar_nimmi (25)
• India
29 Jan 11
hi..caring s not connected wit helpin them everytime..both r different n u've to be more cautious bout d relationships..u need to ask n listen to their problems n u shd make them understand tat u do care for them a lot even if u cudn't able to do at all times out of ur busy schedule..so try to get all ur frnds back n prove u r a gud frnd..
