Fighting for Love? How worth it is?
By screwdriver
@screwdriver (643)
Philippines
January 21, 2011 12:05am CST
I am still not over with what happened between me and my ex-girlfriend. I just love her so much and that I have given my all just to have this relationship work.
Does fighting for my love to her worth it? Does winning her back is the answer? I know you will not understand but the thing is she is my world now.
Maybe i just need to do something about it to stop this and believing that I can still win her back and that we can start all over again.
Im such a looser now.
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8 responses
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
21 Jan 11
First, we have to consider the cause of break up. Think and analyze. If your ex has a new bf and that she is happy with her new relationship, is it worth it to fight for your love? I think it will be a waste. If you think that you are more deserving and her new love is hurting her, then fight for your love. You need to consider those situations.
@screwdriver (643)
• Philippines
21 Jan 11
Hi Maean_19,
If you've read my previous post then you will know if Its still worth it.
Thanks for the comment and i appreciate it a lot.
@lydneis (26)
• United States
22 Jan 11
That unfortunately is a very personal decision. The real question is will fighting for her going to hurt her and is it worth the end result. Depending on what you do you may just force her further away. From my experience it's best to let her know how you feel, and let her decide. There's no point in trying to force her into a relationship with you if she's miserable.
@Ingkingderders (3832)
• Philippines
21 Jan 11
Hmmm. I don't think revolving your whole world around one girl is healthy at all, and I think you know that. If you have given your all already and it still doesn't work out, then maybe it's really not meant to be. Maybe she should give the same way that you do for it to work... .
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
21 Jan 11
It is always worth it to fight for your love. Never giving up shows how much you really care. We only get from a relationship what we are willing to put into it. We should fight for love until the time comes that we know we must give up. Otherwise, fighting for love is never a lost cause.
@ptower76 (1616)
• United States
21 Jan 11
I don't know what happened between you and your girlfriend and the decision to win her back or not is yours. What concerns me is when you say "she is my world". Does that mean the your world revolves around her? If so, in my opinion that is a very unhealthy world to be in. Your world revolves around you and she may be a very important part of your world. But if your world does not exist without her in it, there is a deeper issue here. It might be the reason she has left in the first place. Build a life that is worth living and many people will want to become a part of it including her. You will only lose if you don't learn from your experiences.
@PSTordilla (88)
• Philippines
21 Jan 11
hi, look at it this way if you really love her then you will have to ask yourself the question: where is she happiest?is she happier with you or not?Good if she is happier with you and by all means get her back. But if she is happier not with you you must learn to sacrifice your own happiness for hers.
@auyuelin (231)
• China
21 Jan 11
It is no need to give her your all to get her,on the contrary,it will make you lose her,have you found that,girls always love some bad guys and ignore someone who really treat them well,if you treat her so well,she will just regard you as a good man or a brother,sometimes you should give her the cold shoulder,then you can be together.
If you always treat her so well,even if you can be together,don't you think it is too tired and unfair for you,you are equal,why should you treat her so well and exchange for her cold shoulder.
@shrijsr (574)
• Bangalore, India
21 Jan 11
Hi friend,
I understand to some extent what you are going through, but i can tell you so much!
You seem to be so deep into her and she seems to have been filled your life to such extent that you feel she is your world! Well, things come and go, but when you so strongly feel for her, then you must not give up. Try getting her back!
It is a lot worthy, if you get her back, the day she realizes your endless love for her, then for sure you will find the meaning to your birth!
Don't be worried you are a loser, its just this moment. This will surely change and you will be the winner of your life!
I'm sure you will succeed and get your girl back!
Cheer up! get your energies together and get her back soon!