I love my boyfriend but why do I still like other boys?

China
January 21, 2011 7:11am CST
recently, I am borthered by a problem. I have a beloved boyfriend. He's a good person and I think I really like him. We plan to get mattied two years later(when I graduate). But these days I find that I'm not so sureabout the decision. There is a boy I meet when I was in my driving school who lives in the same city with me. He is humorous, active, goodloking and he helps me a lot at driving. A few weeks age we went to KTV. We sang together and I felt something. He is so cute and I kind of like him. This reminds me of one episode in "friends". When Monica and Chandler have their wedding around the corner, M suddenly feel neverous because she can't sleep with other boys anymore. Am I in the same situation with her? I don't know how to deal with this.
1 response
angel_of_privacy
@angel_of_privacy (66)
• Philippines
21 Jan 11
it's normal to have a crush or two while in a relationship. it just means you're admiring a person. but be careful because you might be feeding your imagination too much into thinking that you're already inlove with the guy. what you need to do now is to evaluate yourself carefully. do you still love your boyfriend? do you think you can give him an explanation if ever you leave him for this other guy? do you think the other guy is worth risking what you have already established with your bf? are you prepared to be alone if ever things don't go well for both guys? think things through very carefully before doing anything. i wish you luck and may you be happy with whatever decision you make. :)