Your idea of a ideal partner
By trader22
@trader22 (232)
Jamaica
January 21, 2011 11:30pm CST
Why do people always think that their dream girl or guy exist. We get caught in this big fantasy from when we were little of how we want the person we love to be. And when we meet that person they turn out to be a nightmare. We always want to control faith and we always think we know best. And when our eyes get open up thats when we realize that the one for us was always next to us. For some of us its too late. I heard a lot of heart break stories from girls because they get blinded by some preconceive thoughts. Some guys always chase after the hottest girls. Even if these girls are out of their league and is wanted by some many other. Society put all these non sense about relationships in our head. Not every thing that happen in the movies is true. Some of us just watch too much of it. I'm sure all or most of us has experience this before.
2 responses
@Bengwayan (34)
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22 Jan 11
A scene of a couple walking hand-in-hand and whispering at each other conveys romance's idealism. But when the love we saw conveyed in the idealism collapses, it crashes us into a tailspin. And when we hear him/her say " I don't love thee anymore," all too often we realize that finding real love means abandoning unrealistic emotional expectations. I am not a foe of romantic love. But when we learn that couples can be caught in a bind, failing to realize that transitions are not endings, no new beginning can follow. You are right. How many times have we seen happenings like these, of a girl or male friend refusing to see the signs on the wall that they are not for each other. Yet the other one clings to the slimmest of hope. But hope eludes them. Still, we see another male friend of ours pining for the girl losing hope, she he cannot see that male friend wanting to love her. All she can see is the male that is deserting her. How important is being taken seriously by the other? Perhaps both have to trust each's behavior Real caring can be expressed without the need of constantly saying "I love you." Liking and caring, tenderness and kindness create intimacy that endures - a little to recoup from the idealism of hurting love.
@DoctorDidi (7018)
• India
22 Jan 11
An ideal partner should understand me fully and should also extend a hand of full coopperation in all my activities.
