What is the better way to Wake-up the School going Kids?

@aliasad (1567)
Pakistan
January 22, 2011 1:54am CST
It has always been a task for me to wake-up the children for school since my son is in early schooling. Sometimes I try to manage "Early to bed & early to rise" policy but even then results are not so encouraging :) How do you do in order to get the kids ready for school, especially those who are little like 4 years? Is it good to lure them by tempting for their favorite activity !
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@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
25 Jan 11
My son's class is in the afternoon so there is no need for him to wake up early. For the few times, that my son needs to wake up early like when they had their field trip, it wasn't really a problem. The night before I already told him what activity we'll do the following day. So, this gets him excited. So when we woke him at around 4:30 am, he is all up. My son likes to go outdoors a lot. The idea of going out and upon hearing that we'll leave him if he doesn't wake up, always makes him get out of bed. I think you should really know your son, to know what would really work best for him.
@aliasad (1567)
• Pakistan
25 Jan 11
Yes for those kids who attend the evening classes or afternoon sessions its very comfortable for the parents to manage sweet_pea. But even than I personally feel that kids must give time for sleep but after that we must not let them to sleep, isn't it. Thanks for response.
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
26 Jan 11
I really like the afternoon classes, since I really don't have problems with waking my son up so early. Though, his class is from 10am to 2pm, after having his lunch, he still takes a nap for around two hours. It is really a must that children get enough sleep appropriate for their age. Your child and mine are about the same age. For school-age kids they need 10-12 hours of sleep a night. And lesser as they reach their teens. Funny why some adults tend to oversleep, including me! You can check this link for additional info. http://kidshealth.org/parent/general/sleep/sleep.html#
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
22 Jan 11
Hi aliasad! When my son is just four years old,I pity him 'cause he really have to get up at 5am just to catch up with his school service. Good thing my son really cooperates with me when it comes to waking him up. But there are really times it's hard for him to wake up and I really understand that. I can't show him the loving mom who would just let him sleep,instead,I try to let him feel that I'm already quite angry with him by not being responsible with waking up early for his school. I just have to explain to him correctly why I am mad at him when he doesn't wake up early,that is,it's for his own good,he needs to go to school and be responsible for it,the first step..wake up early. See you around!
@aliasad (1567)
• Pakistan
24 Jan 11
Hi Mtrguanlao. Yes sometimes we have to be strict in order to make the child go for instructions. But most of the time, as we have friendly relationship, kids assumed to be relaxed all the times, do you think it is? Thanks for valuable input.
• Philippines
24 Jan 11
My kids and I have friendly relationships too,I'm always sweet and loving to them and they are also like that on me too,but when I show them that I'm serious about one thing,they do obey me. Sometimes,you just have to point at them that they also have some responsibilities to do and that is for their own good and that would really make you happy if they do it. See yah!
@emarie (5442)
• United States
23 Jan 11
It always amazes me how my kids can get up at 5:30 on the weekends but when it comes time for school 6:40 is WAY too early. But I know how you feel. Sometimes it's a struggle. And I would continue to get your kids to bed early so they can wake up on time. I always have several alarm clocks in their vicinity to wake them up. I actually make them get up, walk across the room to turn it off. Once they do that all the lights come on and it's getting ready time. My kids eat breakfast in school so I have them prepare everything the night before. Their bags and all of course. I always have their clothes set out for them in the closet so it's just fast. Just pushing and a lot of reminding helps get my kids up and going in the morning.
@aliasad (1567)
• Pakistan
25 Jan 11
Hi emarie. Indeed a struggle sometimes as kids have their own mindset. Yes, in off days kids wake-up earlier and even with no struggle rather we try to keep them sleeping hehehe . Thanks for response.
@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
23 Jan 11
When my son was in kindergarten he couldn't get up. Living in an apartment, it was easy for me to turn on his favorite movie "Dumbo" and turn it up a little so he could hear. I'd go in, jossel him to wake up and then leave the room and he'd be up pretty soon. I'd then say he can't watch it until he is all ready to walk out the door to school and he did his thing, ate, dresses etc and was able to watch 10-15 mintues every morning. Worked great.
@aliasad (1567)
• Pakistan
24 Jan 11
The great idea indeed because I have also tried likewise and results are superb. I promise to let him watch favorite cartoon channel for 10 mins if he gets up early. Happy mylotting coffeebreak!
22 Jan 11
I had the same issue and tried many things so i got them a watch with alarm i set for the same time as my alarm it helped them feel more in control and important as i also said if they woke with the alarm and i wasnt up to come and wake me so we were dependant on each other it worked for me.
@aliasad (1567)
• Pakistan
24 Jan 11
Well you are lucky to understand your kids psychy. Ncessacity is the mother of inventions, after all ;) Goodluck.
@annie_ako (102)
• Philippines
23 Jan 11
hmp..because i am also a student but not a 4-year old child..hehe i still also a lazy person specially when it comes to rise up early.. hmp..for me, let your child learn to wake up early..just give or tell them something that will motivate them like what they eat at breakfast or just give them a reward when they did something good in their school..and for you, just continue your policy of early to bed and early to rise until you successfully make that policy as one of your daily routine.. :)
@aliasad (1567)
• Pakistan
25 Jan 11
Hi Annie_ako! So sweet. Yes kids go for reward as it make them motivated. SUrely I do best to do my efforts and I hope I will succeed one day lol. Thanks
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
22 Jan 11
Hi, Early to bed and Early rise policy is a good practice,but sometimes our children just do not want to sleep early at night. It same goes to my son,..for him, I set the time for him to go to the bedroom at 9.30pm and by 10pm , we will be in the bed. Sometimes, he will refuse to sleep at 10pm,but I have to be more strict to him. So let him lie on his bed and I will just keep quiet on my own bed too. I always tell my son that if he did not sleep early,tomorrow morning he won't have the energy to go school study and play.It does work on my son sometimes. On and off I will give him some small rewards for being an obedient boy.
@aliasad (1567)
• Pakistan
23 Jan 11
So nice advice Shia88. We have to change our habits in order to implement in true spirit towards children. Your advice is much appealing. God bless.
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
22 Jan 11
Hello my friend, actually for me the best way is before your children going to sleep try them to communicate like offer them a story telling, and make agreement with them that you will again tell a story if you will wake up in the morning early or after that will compromise to them that you will wake up them in such time (early time). Then in the morning that morning you can wake up them if same scenario try to remind them your agreement with smile in your lips. In the start may not success but next couple of try will be successful for sure, because they will ask you the story telling again so you can compromise again to them. I think that the good way which I done in my two kids before... see you around
@aliasad (1567)
• Pakistan
22 Jan 11
Hi Visavis! Great idea indeed. Tempting the kids likewise can he helpful. I do make commitments in many ways in order get some other type of issues pertaining to kids like if he is unwilling to do some study work and a promise for some favorite cookies changes the mind altogether. Thanks for great input.
• Philippines
23 Jan 11
I believe letting them sleep earlier than 9pm is wise enough. Here toddlers will have a sufficient rest that their body needs, it refreshes and make them alive the next day because they get to have at least more than 8-hour of sleep.
23 Jan 11
This is his childhood, so this is a natural problem to every parent. Usually what i do to my kids is I always tell him something interesting the night before he go to bed. So next morning he's always excited to wake up early and listen to whatever i say.
• Taiwan
22 Jan 11
When I was a child, My Grandpa is a dictatorial man. if he says:"GET UP!" I won't have the courage to sleep one more second..... Well, that's just a story, not a suggestion :)
• United States
23 Jan 11
I think that the best way to wake up a young child is to allow him/her to get enough sleep the night before. This will make it easier for them to wake up because they will fell more rejuvinated in the morning or whenever you wake them up.