From Different Caste.
By xanxeeb
@xanxeeb (20)
Nepal
6 responses
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
13 Feb 11
I think that you must speak honestly with your parents and explain that you are in love with this lady. You could say that she is the only woman for you and that you wish to marry her. It is necessary that you tell them you need to be with her forever. I hope that your parents will realize that love can go beyond the expected caste system. Good luck with getting married to your sweetheart and getting your parents acceptance and approval.
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@msingla29 (5)
• India
1 Feb 11
today this is similar problem in lot of guys, as you tell that you are small, first of all be in the age of marriage and be patience, as you and your girl friend are of different caste this doesnot a big matter as this can be solve by talking to both of the parents as the time goes they will reliase your feeling and every thing will be o.k.
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@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
18 Feb 11
As long as you're both HUMAN, go for it!! Your parents should not dictate who you marry. They are not the one marrying the person, you are, and therefore, it should be your's and her decision, not theirs.
@juniorstringbean08 (455)
• Philippines
23 Jan 11
hi there.
i think it's best not to think of such things yet. you can never tell what the future may bring to you, and the both of you can change both sides' parents' perception. if you really love each other, stay strong and never let anyone hinder you from loving one another. you may never know, that might be the only way that your parents' may change their minds because they were impressed to both of you and you really deserved each other. good luck and stay happy. see you around!
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@arvind_mangal2002 (124)
• India
22 Jan 11
Dear xanxeeb,
This is the similar problem with a lot of guys. I think you must obtain your parents aadvise. it do not means that you cannot marry your girl friend. but you should make your dad understand that you are in love with her and you cannot live without her.
Thanks
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@shrijsr (574)
• Bangalore, India
22 Jan 11
Hi there,
I thin you guys need to be patient. As you yourself know that you are young. So, there's still time. But, just in case you are forced to do anything against your will, then you need to be united in the first case and then you need to be adamant about your decision. At the same time, you guys need to help your parents understand your love! for this to happen, you need to have a lot of patience, tolerance and determination. And most importantly, you should not lose the confidence on your love!
All the best!