Marriage and Divorce?

oops im sorry, i was new here and i didnt notice my country. yes , i agree with that , many young people dont know its the time , and some thinks that they are ready but they are not. and many young people nowdays , get divorce because their expectations in married life turned out different..

hello! divorce are not rampant for just youngster... it can be also to couples of 10 years or more, it can be widespread to those who are living together 20 years or even higher. I just don't understand their requirements to be engaged lifetime. Maybe effecting factors are the cultures & values we are into. I think our government, our parents who raised us, the church... has a piece how can us be mindful and be rational to those reasons of differences. And we, as the main player must be motivated to the true meaning of christianity. Sorry... i'm not implying in negative... i'm from a country that divorce is a no-no... we are in great respect to our church that even they are not in the "check & balance power" in our goverment they are very well-regarded to let us comprehend that we are also a disciple of God. And being His advocate, we should also follow His divine rule.... that's the reason I think why divorce in our country is not conceded... but hek we have annulment! What a dismay! I just hope that my marriage life will be lasting and so with others... so that we can't be in situation that we will endure something unpleasant!

yes, I think that law (legalized divorce) can be abused... If no one's willing to be in control to patch thing up & settle thing positively... they will end up divorcing. Marrying nowadays is so easy and so is divorce! I'm glad i'm from a conservative country & raised with cultures & values that are beneficial to my being. Of course I'm also thankful to my parents that raised me to be respectful.

yes, it is sad to hear that divorce is becoming legalize in many country now. and becoming part of their life.

I agree, it's really unplanned... But having a stable relationship requires something to be successful. We can do something ahead for our relationship to be lasting and can't leads to divorce. We can have a specifications to make,... like the companies struggling to be stable. We can use a guide & associate with our concern to be triumphant... We should follow the rule of disagreement: "one by one, let each other talk"... "we should listen to each others concern with respect although it is argument"... "then harmoniously settle things up"... "meet halfway in case no one's really want to be obidient to follow each fancy"... meeting halfway means accepting his or her vulnerability... by that, unquestionly you should love her/him unconditional...lastly... "keep the love burning!

hello friend thanks for your response. yes , many people wants to resort quickly and they think divorce is the best way.

yes i agree with you , must be once in your whole life. dont rush everything , and im sure we'll find Ms. Right for us. thx for your response friend.

yes, you are right! As a responsible parent we should lead our children to path full of values that will mold them not only to be a good children to us their parents,... a citizen to this world that's full of reservation,... but also to be a good christian that will help this world a better one. With that, all people for sure will not go wrong... we will be honorable with all our undertakings... & if we will be binded by god in marriage, we will not turn Him down for being divorced. Praise Him!

I think you are now ready to settle down in marriage because you speak to execute things in the best of your effort to work your marriage life to be flawlessl. Good luck!