Annoying ex
@areshstarfreak (238)
Philippines
January 23, 2011 2:58am CST
How should I deal with my boyfriend's ex? She called my boyfriend once saying that she wants them to be together again. Worse, she also emailed my lover's father regarding this. So apathetic! However, I am still thankful that my boyfriend is honest enough to reveal these things to me.
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4 responses
@yogeshdhusa (2236)
• India
23 Jan 11
Thats important, he is sharing with you. So i think you don't have to worry you just have to love him and care him, When you think of worst - worst will happen, so think good and good will happen. If in future he goes back to her, let him go as you cant hold anybody if their heart is not with you. As per saying love is like sand it will slip from your hand if we try to hold tight.
@areshstarfreak (238)
• Philippines
25 Jan 11
You are right. I will love my boyfriend more since he was so honest with me. I just hope that his ex will leave us and will never dare again to ruin our relationship.
@loveandpeace (470)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 11
I think your boyfriend's ex is only trying her luck, and luckily your boyfriend is a honest man and told you about this, maybe she thought if she can make you mad then the two of you will fight over this problem. And maybe she got jealous because you're the one who have him now and she made the desperate movement by emailing his father. I hope your boyfriend can get everything straight so she won't be annoy you anymore. Good luck.
@areshstarfreak (238)
• Philippines
25 Jan 11
I agree with you! I believe that was just her tactic so that me and my boyfriend will break-uo. However, her tactics were not good enough since my boyfriend loves me so much the way I love him. I am proud and happy for my boyfriend's honesty.
@denydungrani (359)
• India
23 Jan 11
Yes the good thing about your bf is he didnt hide that his ex still contacts him. Frankly speaking, there's nothing that you can do here. I know that it must be annoying you and somewhere at the bottom of your heart, a fear would persist that what if he returned back to her? But if that has to happen, there's again nothing that you will be able to do. You should just trust your bf and let him deal with the situation here. Be very close to him and just make him feel that you're always there for him. Your love can only bind him to you. Good luck!
@areshstarfreak (238)
• Philippines
25 Jan 11
Thank you so much for your advice. That is true, I have this fear inside me that my boyfriend might fall in love again with his ex. But as I think it over, the mere fact that my boyfriend was honest to tell me about it, it means that he is not interested anymore with his ex. The honesty that he has shown make me love him more. I will definitely continue loving him passionately.
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@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
19 Mar 12
I think that girl is already crazy to email the father of your boyfriend and it looks like that he is nagging your boyfriend. She is so obsess to your boyfriend. I think your boyfriend really love you because he is telling you the truth and it looks like that he want you to know that he will not go back in that girl so you don't have to worry. Just do nothing, just trust your boyfriend. Don't let that girl drag you into her level.
