Is this a lame way to ask a woman out?

perosnally if someone I knew well did that then I wouldnt mind, but if someone who I barely knew did that I would consider them cheap. The best way I would deal with this, if you DO want to take her out is either ASK HER on a date... keep the coupons to yourself and deal with the coupons either with the reservation or alone. OR leave a note. but eitherway dont tell her you have free coupons.

So you dont know if she has a boyfriend or not? Try to figure out her schedule then just start a conversation up. Bring work up then say that you finally get a weekend off. If she says she is off to, just ask if she has big plans. If not then ask her if she would like to go out to eat. If she says she is working or that she has plans then just say "well, thats too bad. I thought maybe we could go out & eat" If she has a boyfriend, then more then likely she will tell you that her plans are just going out with her boyfriend. (she should catch that you are gonna ask her out) If she says that she is working ask if she'd like a raincheck. In any case, dont be afraid to ask her. The worst that can happen is she will say no. We've all been told no a time or too. Just go for it! (but not by leaving the note)

It would be lame to leave a note asking her out at all. Do it to her face! As for the coupons, that would depend on her... I think I'd be more inclined to take her on a proper date first before using coupons. Or you could not tell her how you're paying and excuse yourself while you pay.

I agree with the others i would do it, Although you may not be being cheap it may come across that way! Why dont you just ring her or go see her and ask her if she would like to go out sometime!

I wouldn't do it if I were you. Like others have said, she'll probably think you're cheap. --- --- --- "I certainly think Britney Spears is the devil. The way she projects herself and the fact that she is so obviously vacuous. I think it's such a shame that she became so influential to very small children." -- MORRISSEY --- --- ---

Yeah, I'd stay away from that one if I were you. I agree that you may be seen as being cheap, even if you aren't. I understand you mean well, but if you want to ask the woman out, you should just do it. Just go ahead and ask her to dinner and forget all about your coupon book for the time being. Save that for later when you two know each other better. Good luck!

I dont think this will be taken as very nice of you.rather it may make others believe that you are a kind of opportunist or something like that.So i would advise you better not to do so. Don't misunderstand me,please.

I personally, as a woman, think thats pretty lame, but also, me, I like that kind of thing. I think its cute...lol. I would think it was awesome if a guy wanted to date me and brought the book to me, saying what you said you were writing in the note...I would probably laugh, smile, and get ready to go!

Absolutely do NOT do that for your first date! You have to have a relationship that is already established and something like that could be used as a joke in a comfortable relationship. She would think it was lame and cheap. She would also see you as being scared or downright weird. Pray for confidence and just ask her out..point blank. The worst she'll do is say no, but still respect you.

I find this really lame. Don't do it again.

You may get looked at as a cheap skate. Have you been on a date with her yet ? Is she a good friend ? Do you know what she is like ? Some woman don't mind.

Yeah that is pretty lame you should work on your technique alot ...........

Are you actually going to use the coupons? If you just used it to ask her out, it's a really cute and funny way to do so. If she says yes, you might as well surprise her by taking her to a nice restaurant. That'd be so cool and smooth.=P

i'm a woman mikey and i don't like that. i'd rather you have the courage to be honest.

Figure out a funny way to say it, make fun of yourself for sounding like a cheapskate. You could tell her someone gave you that coupon book and you need someone to go with so you can get the free dinner ;), then laugh and add; "in your case I would even be willing to pay and give you the free meal". Make it sound a bit like a joke, then if she turns you down, you'll just keep laughing.

Yes, please don't do that , just ask her out and take her to a nice place if you are really interested in her