why does do guys , do that?

@tiina05 (2317)
Philippines
January 24, 2011 4:33am CST
hello everyone, Its been almost 2 years when I have my status now, I am in a relationship. it is fun! and really exciting! but as of course I have notice different kind traits of my guy and I also notice it to other guys. hmmm here it goes, Every time that a guys seen a pretty lady or attractive lady than her girlfriend he always look at that girl even though he is on his girlfriend. duh! what does this mean guys? and for the girls? did you also experience it?
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4 responses
• Philippines
24 Jan 11
You are young as this stage of your life and having a boyfriend has lots of fun. Nevertheless, you are experiencing a girl's stage wherein your body metabolism tends to create certain actions that you really do not know at present. The same is true with your boyfriend, he's experiencing a boy's stage wherein he cannot control his actions. Boys are boys and their tendency is to look at the beautiful things around them especially ladies. You as a lady must try to comprehend him for something that's worthwhile with your relationship. Try to talk to him squarely about your likes and dislikes. The same is true with him, and set an agreement that can build your relationship to the fullest. If he loves you, then he'll agree with you and work out things that can destroy your love for him. Be vigilant, if you love him that much, if not, then, try to release some freedom for him and you too. Find a guy that truly loves you and in return loves you so much. True love needs no explanation but it can be built into a lasting one.
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
27 Jan 11
hello thanks for your responds, Yes, you have a point and I get it. Maybe I should understand that because I also do it. right? And we are both young So, the fact is we can easily attract to an attractive things or person. Yeah, Maybe I should just talk to him but It doesn't matter it now for me because as what you explain I already understand clearly why does he doing that.right? thank you really help.
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
24 Jan 11
I believe you trust your boyfriend right. If say soo I think no big deal about looking to other girl even if you are around. Why? Because if you are confidence that you and your boyfriend is loving, respecting, trusting each other no problem like that. However, it is normal attitude or character for both couple it is called jealous but not harmful jealous which should both party will aware of to avoid any mis-understanding. see you around
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
27 Jan 11
hello thanks for your responds, Yeah, I understand it now. Yes maybe the secret of a successful relationship is the trust. right? . Maybe I just little bit jealous about that but now I am clearly understand. LOL thank you really help!
• United States
24 Jan 11
It means that he saw an attractive woman...So? I don't really get why girls get so freaked out over this.
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• Philippines
27 Jan 11
It's a guy's nature tiina05. I've experienced it with my boyfriend and even my guy best friend do that. Guys are more visually inclined and for them its normal to look at other girls even if they are on a date with someone they love. At first I really get jealous but later on I realized that it is a petty things to quarrel or argue on things. Even us girls if we saw a guy who is very good looking we turn our heads right? so don't worry about it okay. Cheer up!