What do you do if ....

hi, of course i will feel sadness and depress in life,especially when i really love this guy, i will feel that my world will end and fall because of the feelings i experience.but still i have to live because of me.and accept it.everything in the world is only a temporary and these will end in undistinguished time.

Of course, very sad ... I will fill the final on the day of life with great joy even in the hearts cry ... Tough like a piece of coral that have never wavered in a pounding storm .. Because sadness that we putting out in front of her just makes her more suffering .. Love is more sacred than that also exist .. because love is eternal ... though the time change and life ends but love will still be there ..

My husband and I have been together for 36 years and feel our bond will go on after this life.. I'm hoping we both die peacefully in our sleep! If not and a scenario such as you painted occurred, mostly I would pray and try to keep my and his faith very strong, as Jesus did say "whoever has faith can move mountains" (of difficulty) and God is health and healing as it says all who came to Jesus for healing were healed and He "healed all oppressed of the devil.."

Hmm, tough questions. It's easy to answer a hypothetical question, but if this is in real life... In three months time, I'll be at her side, dropping everything that I do and just be with her. Three months isn't that long a time. That's not so hard for me to do. What's hard for me is to hide my sadness. I know I should be strong and that I should make her laugh and joke around to lighten things up, but that's easier said than done. Losing someone you love hurts. It hurts really bad.

I would continue loving him despite his illness and i will do my best to make him happy for the last three months that he has in this world. It is a sad news but then there's nothing i can do with it. I cannot be sad because depression will only make him feel worse. I don't want him to die without having good memories about me and about our love. I want to remember him as a happy person and not a sick person. So seeing him smiling every day would give joy in my heart and I know that he would also want me to feel that way.

Wow, that hurts. It would be pretty awful if that happens. In fact, I have a similar situation though his disease (which is not tested yet, but we're pretty sure he has it) is going to kill him in about 20 years, i think, or less if he finds that he does have it. It's awful, but I try to be with him and be there for him as humanly as possible. I even go and stay at his place. We usually just forget about it and have a good time together. My bf is an amazing person. I can imagine how that would hurt everyone who loves him. I'm just hoping that he doesn't have it. Asking your prayers too. Good LUck!

Convince yourself that the former are not the only person who can you happy. Still many others who are more fit without having to hurt you like him.

Oh,if such a thing is really unfortunate encounter,I think I will,as before,no change in the day to help her through her final moments.And I will be more strong.

I'll always beside him and smile. We still live a normal life with much fun and happiness.

Obviously I'll be sad in this life really does sting, the spirit of love n happiness during the remaining period of 3 months, very very sad and will not laugh until she recovered if god willing, I'm always beside you love you till the world separates us you happy I'm happy you sad I'm sad .. I hope my holy god finds love with my love before.

If that will happen i think ill cherish every moment that I'm seeing him alive beside me, remembering all the things that we have shared. Think positively that he is going for a travel for a good and better place. Besides good memories will be left for you to keep.