What do you do if abandoned by the people you care about?
By gengeni
@gengeni (3308)
Indonesia
January 24, 2011 8:37pm CST
What would you do if you left the people you care about,
Abandoned by the father for good, then abandoned by a mother who went some where, and your boyfriend are a few of this year with you .... turned out to choose a new one else was known.
Sad indeed, but life must go on, right?
then what would you do if you find this problem?
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5 responses
@denydungrani (359)
• India
29 Jan 11
This is really sad for anyone who has been left alone by many. Especially those who care about them the most which includes their family and your life partner. I personally feel that if such a thing happens to anyone, in most of cases the same person would be at fault. Because your parents are the people who care like anything for you and if they are leaving you, its because you did something really wrong to hurt them. Regarding your life partner, it may happen you both may have a quarrel on certain issues and you may have to leave him/her. But as far as parents are concerned they never leave you unless you do something very bad with them.
Such a person needs to realize what wrong did he do with his family memebers first. After finding that out he needs to contact them back and apologize for the same. In most cases, your parents will forgive you even for the gravest of mistakes you commit. So apologizing and never repeating the mistake again can only be a possible solution.
@rifnee (1713)
• Indonesia
26 Jan 11
Abandonment of the events that we receive, good and bad, it's all a part of our life's journey, do not be too far in responding to events that happen to us, sikapi alone with an adult without the need to reduce our worship to God.
In general, people are very unhappy with something to lose a loved one, but not for people who have been contemplating this life, who have learned that this world is impermanence / absence / ketidakabadian, all beings will experience the destruction of the physical body which is a surrogate, which in the end all they are accountable to Him.
Only people who behave with patience, trust, surrender and give thanks to God for all His will, which can destroy whatever it receives heavy issues ... so .. ya
@nakula2009 (2325)
• Indonesia
25 Jan 11
if judged by his story, like its two-two of his illness, but not if love each other and to love, try this method as a way out, so that the relationship is still running, not necessarily to forget, because forgetting I think is not a solution even add to the burden of new problems ..........
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
25 Jan 11
If that happens, then i would go to my friends or relatives and there find comfort.
I would try all wholesome means that i can to entertain myself. I would always surround myself with happy people so i myself will happy too. I will immerse myself on some religious activities that would help me heal too deep inside.
Best of all, i will pray fervently to God to help me get through the pains of all that happened to me.
@kendedes2011 (2712)
• Indonesia
25 Jan 11
Bitter, bitter if left to those we love. If you can not kill myself, but of course it is forbidden by God. Such was the story that perhaps we've ever experienced in life. Time to feel the bitterness left by those we love.
We too grieve for the loss of it, because we too love God's creation. We want to have it all his heart, convinced that he belonged to us. Though he was a man just like us who will face trial alone hereafter. He is him, we are us. While love, what love is?. Is love just emotion that sometimes stop and sometimes go?. Is not love is a feeling to do something to make a good thing?.
But that's the risk of human love. If we love God then, surely God will approach us to give His love to us. If we pursue our human love is not necessarily to love sincere. Life is temporary. If we can go to heaven do not we can ask God to give us an angel that we want. We can ask God to give us our true love. Human love in the world is love false. Not necessarily that we can be with him in the Hereafter.