smile, not get angry

My husband is like you, very short tempered. He loves us dearly and is a very responsible man. He just can't control his temper and it seems that snapping is just but natural for him. But in a while, he would be okay again. I would always joke him about it, that his temper might kill him or make him older than he actually is. . .and he would just smile. He never say sorry though, but his next action and tone of voice will tell he regrets it. I help him by kidding him always that it would make him look older.

sometimes we just can't control our temper,so next time when you get angry,waht you need to do is run away,I mean when you get angry with your son and you are going to critizise him,leave yourself alone soon,you can have a walk or just breath deeply in other plce ,after you calm down,back to your son and have a peaceful talk with him!it works for my mom!any way,have a try and good luck!