What wrong with me ?

Hi Joanna, Welcome to myLot! You are saying that you feel happy everyday but that you are a sad girl, it's a little contradiction. It could be that you can't fall in love because you are happy enough right now. I know from experience that you are more easily affected by love when you are in a sad mood for period off time. You don't have to be desperate that you can't fall in love, it's just a sign that you haven't found the right one for you yet. Maybe there are even plenty off boys waiting for you to fall in love with them... The best you could do is wait for the right one, but you can still flirt on parties or whatever cuz it was like this that I found my dreamgirl; Both as drunk as hell, I still remember... ^^^ Happy myLotting! -Milamber

Dear Joanna, We are of the same situation. But, don't worry, it will come to you by surprise.Just don't try hard searching for him. Love will come to you when you least expected it. And don't get pressured by your peers. We all have our unique love stories. Isn't it fun waiting for you love story?hehe. Enjoy mylotting and welcome to this site.

Hold it! Hold it!! There is nothing wrong with you. You are very smart. You won't fall for just anybody. You are going to save yourself a lot of heartache. Know that true love holds no time table for anyone. Sometimes true love doesn't show up until later in life. Always stay open for true love tends to show up when you least expect it. So relax,it's not your time yet. That doesn't mean there is something wrong with you.

First,do you love some guys in your life?As you said,I think you are imagining and waiting for a sweet love story just like that a handsome boy one day come to you and say I love you tenderly,and at this time you can't control youself anymore.....and then you both fall in love and live happily for a whole life.It sounds great! haha! But you know,before this handsome boy come to you,you can also tell him you are loving him. Happy Valentine! beeduzeh

hello joanna, dont worry about it, when the time has come, you will feel the same way like your friend. actually, i have a younger sister that is 3 years older than you, and she is never fall in love too. just like you, she felt that she hasnt find the perfect one. while i'm, her sister, has find love since elementary school. and i've already in love relationship more than 5 times. it is a contradiction between me and my sister. and no matter how hard i try to make her love someone, it never succeed. she always said that boys in the same age with her are so spoil and more feminim than girl and how she wish she could have a wonderful boyfriend like my boyfriend now. a mature one, gentleman and manly. maybe you and my sister only have to find the perfect one. it doenst mean that the two of you cant fall in love. you just need time to find the perfect one. well, of course if i was in my sister condition where the boys are spoil, i definitely cant fall in love with any of those boys. i believe when you find a boy that suite you, you will right away fall in love with that boy. just try to list what type of boy that you really like. try to have friendship with other kind of boy. maybe you could find one,if you have many friends(boys) with many type. good luck for you joanna

Be patient, joanna.. Maybe you just don't meet the perfect match for you, not yet. But I'm sure he will come someday. Why so rush to fall in love and then the love come to hurt you? Don't be sad. You'll find a true love, the happiest love :)

Don't be sad,my friend.Love is a miracle.It needs predestined relationship.Maybe it's not right time!I think if Mr right is not appear,you can study first.Knowledge is important,too.You can also make friends with boys,maybe your one is there!In this wonderful world,there are many things to do!Good luck!I hope you're happy every day!