Tips to get up from a broken heart?

previously I apologize if my response offended you .... I suggest you try to take ablution water continued to pray and pray to god to calm your heart and not a broken heart again

Hi there! Its really hard to feel broken hearted. The things that I did after my lover broke up with me is that I cried and I cried until there's no more tears that I could cry. I just realized one day that I'm just wasting my time crying and there's nothing I could do to get him again or to love me back. So I just try my best to move on by doing things that can make me happy like bonding with my friends and family. I also spen time for myself like shopping and many more. I'll show the world that I can live without him.

hello there kendedes! everything happens in our life, has its own reason and purpose. some people will come, some will also find their way out of our life and mostly they will leave us something in our life, it may be good but sometimes its a scar that left us into crying. but no matter what they will us, we must know also how to value our lives. they may left us broken hearted, the step to live happily is to accept it that they are not for us to share all of our remaining days of our lives. learn that no matter what will happen we have our family and friends that will give us strength. and importantly, God is always there for us. He did not give us struggles to pull us down but to lift us up and mold us is to something that we are not like before. and there were laid plans for us to be fulfilled in its most significant cause. :)

I ever felt a broken heart, after dating for 7 years which led to painful separations, where the finish is my mate who must own for no reason .. I still tried hard and I'm even closer to God, who previously during courtship I feel far from God .. Top antecedent did have a plan Exceptional who never imagined ...

When I am heartbroken and devastated, I even destroy myself and my life without my knowing it. Soon I was looking for activities and a new environment, which means also acquainted with new friends, try new things that even we have never tried. It is difficult in the course of the process. Again and again, a sense of confidence in themselves and others disappear and arise. Control emotion and logic into a mess. If the moment arises, what is needed is idle and silent to parse better as he prayed. With persistence and resignation; slowly new things began to go well as the positive things in the past. The belief was gradually recovering. Association began to spread. Quality of life for the better. And, now, after nearly 3 years, although still not fully recovered; I feel many changes in my life. I felt that my life became better than before I broke your heart. Five senses, logic, and think I became more sensitive. I actually learned a lot of things that are small and detailed. I became more appreciative of others and life is better to thank God more.

This happens with me since past 3 years continuously, I blindfoldedly believe my life partner and every time she commit to me that next time i will not make you down. In fact, i merely dont understand whats the problem with her. My life has become compromise. I am having twins boys 3 years old, just for the future of kids i am baring all pains, this effects to me lot only reason is i love her so much, when she do all still i forgive her soon and gave her another opportunity so that she could change. Now God only knows. My situations are worst, i must be very angry and frustrated, but i understand this should not be the end of the world and i diverted myself towards work. Started concentrating more on work, adding more schedules so that i should not get time to think other stuff and hurt myself. I am feeling better now.

It's easy to tell someone to just get over a relationship and to move on but to the person who's just had his/her heart broken, it must be devastating. That is why I always feel that if one were to ever be involved in a relationship, one shouldn't get in too deep. And if it happens that the relationship doesn't last just think that what's broken will be repaired and what's lost will be replaced.

I think it's just a feeling that can be controlled. all just a feeling someone's heart, so if you want to eliminate the sadness stayed to fight with something that can make us forget it. playing with ps x. lol

It is indeed heart-breaking when the people we love leaves. Like what you said,the most important thing to do under this circumstance is to remove the sadness as soon as possible. To have some alternatives like traveling with your confidential friends,donating in somewhere,or hard working,in order to transfer your thinking and to build up some new interests. Just like it said,when we lose something here,we will gain other things there. Never give up!!