Love without friendship

There is no rule when it comes to love. It is not science or math it has no specific pattern. If people start at friendship, it's there choice. If they go on a serious relationship and it works out then all are happy. You cannot compare situations because they are different. One cannot say a long standing friendship is better than a relationship that was built a day or two. There are relationships that long that don't work out and their are relationships with short courtships that work out and vise versa.

i have done both. i am single at the moment but i definatly prefer some form of friendship first.

Love and friendship go hand in hand in every relationship. So it is impossible if you just fall in love with the person and not making friends with her/him at the same time.

Starting with friendship is always been a trend.. u wanna do something different go ahead.. im with you.... WIth friendship u kno all about the other person , his likes/dislikes..ablah blah... but Without friendship..its like love at first sight.. for most of the cases it may be good for about 2-3 weeks.. and then your relationship might fade off... so i strongly suggest get in freinsdhip and then fall in love.. :) :) :)

Well, I think it's okay if you start out as lovers and then you end being bestfriends on the long run. I would say the same for myself. My partner and I started out as lovers right away not knowing the flaws and bad personality of each other. Then later as our relationship deepened, we became comfortable with each other's presence and we became the best of friends. Well, it depends on how the relationship would go for some.

Start with friendship are always the best way. Since if you skip the friendship you will never know your love one well and you both will have many problem together.

I strongly believe that any relation starts with good friends. Good friendship once understood well can lead to a good relation. I totally agree with you nowadays that every relation is getting express way and by the time people wink all relations are finished.

for me friendship is still the best foundation in a relationship. its where you get to know each other to develop respect and trust with each other.

Yeah, sometimes you just fall so fast that you just don't wanna be friends anymore. These was this chic from school who was introduced to me cya friend. When I saw her I just fell go love right then and there. And when she smiled, the sun seemed to have shined its brightest. I courted her after a couple of days and when she said she wanted to be friends, I misinterpreted her, I thought she didn't like me so I just quit courting her. After a while, her friend called me a coward. I asked why and she said it's because I stopped courting her. She also said that her friend, the one I courted, actually liked me but wanted to be friends at first. It was wrong move, big time.

well, if two people are friends first and then get into the relationship probably they might be problems. i will tell you why. the expectations as a friend and a lover are two very different things, this change might give rise to misunderstanding too. If they move as an express and straight away start a relationship, this shows that they don't want to fool each other saying friendship and they can understand each other better right? either way, one must be clear of the fact that they like or love the other person. that is all that matters.any other problems can be solved if they have the willingness to. people think you can get to know your partner well by spending few years with them or probably live-in but at the end of the day, nobody can give the gaurantee they will remain the same after marriage! right!? i guess that was too long than i expected to answer! LOL :D :P

Love without friendship = vodka without RedBull ! No taste,No Kick,No Enjoyment = waste of time and money !

friendship is the base of love,especially if the two want to be married.being friends means you two may have a lot in common:same interests,same hobbies,and many other things. so when troules come,you two may have great courage to face them.and your love maybe the sweetest in the world.

yes i like this.

i am see for other time for friendship for love for girls to your girlsfriends to see for one time love me.your friendship for lover to everyone to can for love our desire for ourself.

With my ex , we weren't true friends. We skipped that step and went straight to passion. Well it didn't last. It fizzled out . We weren't truly connected! But with my guy, we were good friends for months before he told me he loved me , And soon after I told him I loved him back. We Are connected! I now know you Have to be friends first. That way if the passion frizzles, you are Still connected.

I think that that thing also happened ago. It only depends on how people met and how they want the relationship start. Not all my relationship started as friendship and neither i know the guy. So, most of my previous relationship didn't last long, often end up with a wrong guy so i have to end up the relationship as soon as possible.

Well, you can build a friendship during a love relationship, too. It does not really matter whether to become friends first or lovers first. But yes, ideally you have to become friends first to be able to love someone better.

Well, you can build a friendship during a love relationship, too. It does not really matter whether to become friends first or lovers first. But yes, ideally you have to become friends first to be able to love someone better.

Well my opinion, at first we could not feel Love to the person we like, we might feel infatuation...but as we go along with that person and know about him/her somehow Love emerge. In that way, Friendship relationship may help to feel such Love.

in my opinion, a love relationship will last longer if it the lovers have a strong friendship as foundation. during the friendship stage, we can learn a lot of things about our potential partners that can be useful for maintaining a successful and long-lasting love affair.