Dou You Know The Feel of Jealous by Your Best Friend?

Indonesia
January 25, 2011 9:26pm CST
I have couple but now was lost by my best friend. My Couple texting with my bestfriend after I introduce him to her. What should I do to resolve this problem?
6 responses
• United States
28 Jan 11
That is a crappy situation hun but youl be ok. maybe you shouldnt even want to resolve it. if your bestfriend would do that to you and so would he then they belong together because that just shows how unloyal they both are. Let them deal with eachother and be glad u dodged a bullet
@lady1993 (27224)
• Philippines
27 Jan 11
I don't think you can trust the guy(maybe even both of them) after what had happened. I think you can still resolve the problem with your best friend but not the BF...Don't let a guy ruin your relationship.
• United States
27 Jan 11
Well, first I would look at the type of messages that they are sending each other to see if they are flirting. If there is flirting then you should forget both of them because a real friend wouldn't do that and a boyfriend who loves you wouldn't do that. If they are just joking around and talking then I might not see anything wrong with that. My best friend used to fight with my boyfriend online all the time but there wasn't flirting. I would be concerned if my "best friend" is communicating with my boyfriend more than she is communicating with me though. That's just weird. I think that you should let both of them know that it makes you uncomfortable if it does, because open communication is always best in my opinion. If he doesn't respect your feelings then he may not be the right one for you.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
26 Jan 11
Hi dear, Find out how serious they are and also is there any serious relationship going up in between. As this is the initial stage, if they are not so serious and just for a friendship, you can ask directly and convince of the matter. But he really lost and you proved from their behaviour, leave it. I cannot just say leave him, but as there is no other option, better to avoid unwanted troubles initially. Just like our other friend said, don't shed tears for such people and you look young and will get still better man in your life. Best of luck and have a nice day. Thank-s
@toniganzon (72553)
• Philippines
26 Jan 11
If your boyfriend left you for your best friend, then let them be. I mean it's time to move on. Why would you still want your boyfriend back when he obviously is interested in your best friend more. If your friend is a true friend, then she would not entertain him at all, but if they love each other then you can't do anything about it anymore. Be strong, there are still a lot of men out there who will love you more than he did. Stop crying and just forget about him. He doesn't deserve a single tear at all. Cheer up!
@Mufasu (176)
• Indonesia
26 Jan 11
These events are often experienced by many people. That proves he's not the love of your life. Its better you behave the way they are. After all, its not the end of everthing. There are many things you can do and dont stop moving just because things like that. So keep on going to become even better.