A Hall Pass ? Really?

I could not do this for a weekend, let alone a day friend. As although I am not married, my boyfriend and I live in a committed relationship, and this is something I can allow as I would not do so either.

I could *never* allow something like that. I mean don't get me wrong, if he wants to go spend the weekend with his buddies or his brother that's totally fine with me. But sending him away "single"?? You've got to be kidding me. I'm *way* too jealous for an open relationship. More power to the people who live that way, but it's definitely not for me. The closest I get to that is the occasional threesome, but there are lots of rules and agreements and stuff.

I don't think so! If a couple has mutually chosen to have an open relationship, that's one thing, but for a married man to get to act single for a weekend, let' just say I can't imagine any wife putting up with that and if she did, she'd have to have some serious self-esteem issues. If my husband even hinted at such a thing I'm afraid I'd have to pull a "Bobbitt" on him...lol! For those of you too young to remember, Lorena Bobbitt was a wife who...well, her husband was an a$$hole and she bobbed it and tossed it out her car window! Unfortunately, it was found and reattached. Annie

I've never been married, but for something like this to work, it would have to be a strong relationship. The two would have to trust each other and their decisions... For me specifically, I think the only circumstances and reasons that would need to happen to let me agree to this would be simply to prove that the two are meant for each other. The guy would go out and act single... but hopefully come home realizing that though that freedom was nice, he didn't actually enjoy it, or he realizes how much he would rather be with his wife. Now, maybe that sounds a little far fetched, but if your partner would prefer being with other women over you, then the relationship can't be that strong to begin with.