So my ex and i are acting like bf and gf

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Several days ago, I shared a story regarding my ex bf of 10 years with his weird actions and words that sometimes make me think that he wants to get back together. again, i dont want to assume. and frankly right now, i dont want us to get back together. anyway, so yesterday my ex and i were texting. we're really close friends despite the breakup. we've been friends for like 16 years now, so despite the failed relationship, we managed to keep our friendship intact. so anyway, we were texting last night when he suddenly told me "let's have dinner". it was already past 9 and i told him "enjoy eating" because i thought he was just stating a thought that he's gonna eat where he was, and was being polite thru text. then he texted back "come eat with me". and i said to him "haha next time". then he suddenly called me and told me he was on the way to Manila (He lives and works in Makati) and he was going to pick me up. I asked him "is this for real?" and he said yes and told me to get ready. And so after a few minutes, he was downstairs and was waiting for me in the car. I found it weird that he acted like that. Anyway, so we got to this restaurant which serves Persian food. To my surprise, he sat beside me. I didnt ask why nor reacted or acted weird. I didnt find it awkward to be honest. But Im not sure whether it was because the feeling was familiar or because I was just really comfortable around him as my friend. So we ate and he was more attentive of me than before. Again, the confusion. But Id still rather insist on thinking that he's just really being a very very very good friend. So when he dropped me off at my place, he kissed me goodnight. It was just a peck on the cheek, but he was too sweet. He even held my hand for like 5 seconds. So the night ended.... Today is a new day. And just an hour ago, he texted me that he wants to have coffee with me. I said he should just go home and sleep early so he wont be late for work tomorrow. he said he was already on his way to my place. I thought he was joking but after a few minutes, he was there. So here we are at Starbucks having late night coffee. I still dont want to assume anything. I refuse to. I dont want to spoil a good friendship. Oh heck, now he just asked me out to dinner tomorrow. Too bad I had to decline because I already have plans for tomorrow night. He said we can have dinner on Friday. I told him Im not yet sure but maybe.... So anyway, I really dont know how to go from here. I refuse to assume and I refuse to ask. Dont get me wrong, I dont have feelings for him romantically. As a friend, I love him dearly. I want things to remain platonic between us. But with his actions and words, I dont know what he's thinking. Oh heck. Just sharing guys....