Will you still love him/her or you'll forget him/her?

..hi.. well, for me, in that case, it wouldn't be that easy to trust him/her again.. Although they say that we all deserve a second chance, but then, for me it still depends on the situation. A trust is very difficult to build after the person has somewhat betrayed you already. The stain is there and it can't be erased in seconds. It takes time and the person involved would need to make an effort to regain the trust and confidence he/she has broken. But if there is no effort in doing that, apology isn't enough. There has to be proof in words and in deeds. For me, I'll have to check the person first whether he/she is sincere and will really be honest and true and it will really take time to do that. After all, it is my emotion and feelings that has been hurt and I'd like to focus on what will make me happy too.

Fair to myself and her, i will ask the reason first. If she give me funny reason that i can't accept, then just forget about the relationship. But if the reason is make sense, then i will forgive her but promise don't repeat it. But my advice here is even the reason/excuse is logic, don't put your 100% in this relationship yet. Observe it first. Or else we will hurt ourself. Agree?

Talk to them. Why did they ignore you? Than go with your gut. Does this person truly feel sorry? Are the words spoken honest? If you decide to give the individual another chance, make it just one. If they pull the same scenario again, it's adios amigo. There are too many fish the sea to put up with bull()*0.

Ask first, why he changed, if he hesitated yes ... maybe in his heart there is another girl. So ... if you do not feel comfortable and happy with him so ... end only. we are there at the time of adolescent / young is still a lot of guys in this world you know. Just listen to your heart. okay

If I still love him and care for him, I will always welcome. And if he really meant with his apology, have a reason for that, I'll give him a change to proof.

Hmmm.... if I hadn't done anything for him to be mad at me and suddenly get cold on me, then I would think that maybe he doesn't like me anymore or has found someone that he likes more than me. That would be the worst scenarios. And then suddenly, maybe they broke up with the other girl and decided to come back to you. That guy is such a looser. He's just a waste of time, you can forgive him but get back on the relationship? No way, what kind of guy would just vanish into thin air and just like that, with all the apologies, get the relatiosnhip patched up? That's just so lame. I couldn't possibly accept that guy anymore.

My advise would be try to be away with him. He would have been in a relation with someone else and then that broke up, trying to come back. So dont continue any relations with him.

Yes, I would surely forgive him/her. We sometime get indulged into such a problems that we may not be able to even inform our beloved ones. It may happen to everyone it doesn't mean that you forget him/her. Let him/ her apologies for what he/she did as you were hurt but we've to given them chance to prove themselves. You know love never ends when you love somebody truly by heart even if he betrays you. Your hearts stops beating when you die but it is impossible for anybody to remove your beloved name form your heart. Happy mylotting.

I would probably ask first what happened to that person and if provided with enough reason for the length of that person's absence maybe I would reconsider. But if you think about it carefully if that person did really love you would that person should have said something. Making you wait and wonder, for me is very rude. If you truly love someone no matter what you would always find a way to contact that person. You don't want to make them worry for you. at least thats what I always do to my significant other. But in cases only if that person got in to a severe accident and none of his family knows me or he got cut off from all communications because that person might have been kidnapped or held hostage would suffice for a long absence otherwise I would think that person was only wasting my time and I'm better of with someone who knows how to take care and treasure me.

Again this thing depends on the circumstances. Depending on the explanation and depending on my feelings for that person. There are just things that are hard to explain. Try to listen, if you think that the reason for disappearing is acceptable then forgive the person and take her/him back.

Well at least the Moment, Place, Atmosphere, Environment And the song ... Yes If Far From You, While still the status of friends, at least if he crossed into one of the things above ... Why is baseball the same He always miss you ..! One With Nature to what it is you ..! with Show Sincerity,

hello rifnee! It will depend on what that lover has got to say. Each man has his own story to tell and no matter how foolish or stupid he may have been, i will still listen to him. However, if he doesn't make any sense to me at all and i would surely know he's just bumbling to get my attention, i would definitely say goodbye. I would have no use for people who just want me because they need me and if they don't, they just go and be gone for some months? then, when they feel the urge, they'd come back thinking they could easily picked off where they have left off? shame on such a person. anyway, if i can sense that the person has had a very difficult experience and is really telling the truth, well, maybe i would get him back. But he will be definitely be subject to close scrutiny, monitoring and investigation. If he will do anything like that again, no matter how slight, then i will definitely drop him like a bombed potato.

Like the Roxette song , "Listen to Your Heart". Try to ask yourself whether you really want him deep in my heart despite what his attitude, character, appearance, his heart, his family, his friends. If 'yes' answer, give a chance on him and you guys to try to understand each other once again. If the answer is 'no', there really anyone else who may be better than him or it was a sign you are destined for the better.

greetings! it depends on your status you were in when he tried to contact you again. if you have moved on and now with another partner, then just listen to what he has to say so you'll have the closure you need. then explain to him that things have changed since then. but if you still love him then go for it. make him suffer for it first, but take him back again, LOL

Me and my girlfriend boughgt a house together after about a year of being together, so we will be together forever and neither one of us could afford this house alone. But I have always said (not to her) if she found someone else ande left, I would give her one week. My reason is, if she leaves, and 3 or 4 momnthes later it doesn't work out, and I jus take her back, in the back of her mind, she'll know she can leave anytime she wants and if it doesn't work out, I'll always take her back.

Yeah its a fact PEOPLE CHANGE WITH TIME... HUman nature is tough to understand..U never know whats the twist just about the corner.. i think you should hear his story and then make whatever call for future.. evrything has definitely a motive or reason behind it... all the best :)