Internet dating, does it really work?

Hi Jo It happens and can not be made. It will work out for some people and not for some other. Personally is definitely nice and real but chances of physical intimacy will also be there which may sometimes leads to unwanted embarassments. I agree that most of the net friendship is only for timepass and not real.

hi vathsala, why people will have this through the net, if personally will be nice and real i feel, is it. I feel most of the net friendship etc., are fake, what do you say?

I disagree with you vathsala dear. Physical attraction is also playing an important role in love affair from the time of Adam and Eva. In internet love that is missing. I was a 17 years girl seeing through my window. My hubby was 20 years old. Very young and very smart with well structured physique. He was walking along the street with an arm cut T-shirt. just two minutes screen shot. It deeply got into my deep mind. till now I remember that seen colorfully. Now he is reaching his fifty. No young and not having a strong young physique. But still still I remember the two minutes seen every day. After that so many ups and downs happened in between us. But the seen which impressed my young age, is still fresh. In internet love there can be no happiness like this. and where to go for a sweet remembrance in the old age. I totally disagree with net love. some thing wrong there. out of nature.

Hi jo and jai,It is possible for jaiho and sadly impossible for vijayanths. Of course it is a big fun for many. I think many are chatting just for fun, not serious,this is my experience.

hello Jo, There are lots of unbelievable things,and internet affair is one of it. But for people who believes in it and has proven and made it real,it's not impossible at all. Have a nice day dear

Hi dear, yeah may be.

very well said, reneezoso, I agree with all your points. I think the success rate you said seems to be right.Of course, there are a few successes of internet love but exceptions can't be taken as samples. Thanks.

most f those exceptions.. i know of..met after one week of internet chatting..and are going on pretty well... so its not that bad as it sounds...:) :) ... are you falling for someone on the internet (just kidding ) :P :P :

Yes, triplejazzm51 , there are too many disadvantages in Internet dating. We can rely on the details they give online. They may be true or fake. It takes a lot of time to know about the real facts of the other online.

you are right hardworkinggurl, it is better not to reveal personal details until we know very well about the person. Of course some people are successful in online dating. But I think the success rate will be pretty low, this is my opinion.

Hi, fabsprecious , yes, you sound so meaningful to me. It is not safe to reveal our personal details to new friend online. They may be good or bad.Until we are sure they are good, we should not reveal our details to them. The chances of success is very less, I think.

I completely agree, maybe it's just me, but I am very spectacle about the internet dating thing, you just don't know who you are going to meet now a days, my fear is I might meet someone psycho, SCARY!!! Makes me thank god I am married and over that dating thing...

Hi, maean_19 , I agree with you that Internet love works for some people. It does not work for most people. I never thought Internet love could be possible until I got close to a female a few years ago(that time I used to spend some time in chatting), then somehow we both found it not worth and stopped. Now I don't chat with any one online.

Hatley, I also have the same view on this topic. I can't believe what people say on Internet chatting. May be they speak truth, may be they don't. Usually they hide many things-they hide their weak points and highlight their plus points. Mostly their aim is to have fun and not to get into a serious relationship. this is my experience.

hi, dodo19 I think you can't comment much on this topic. I think I am also not so eligible to talk about this topic as I also don't have much online chatting experience so far. May be I don't have the interest in online chatting. But I have a few online friends, we don't chat much. Once in a year or so , we chat,lol.

Hi, lala501, that's good, I would say. You won't end up with disappointment. Internet love is mostly virtual. Most Internet users chat for fun. They chat for time pass. They are seldom serious about the relationship. The distance is the main reason for the failure of Internet love.

Hi, mods, as you rightly poined out it is very hard to find real love on Internet. Mostly Internet users chat for fun and time pass. They sometimes assume they are in love but after some time they realize that it is just virtual and not real.

I agree with you dear jai. But the success rate is very very low.May be it works well for a few people like you and does not work for many people like me,lol.Jo does not know much about this. Hi, jo? How are you dear sister?

Ho great then.

Oh sweetie, I understand your views but still I can't accept this. May be I had bitter experience or did n't try enough to understand about Internet dating/love. I frankly admit that I don't have much experience in this. May be I am not for this stuff.

hi, Jacobus1919, I respect your views. May be as you said if there is honesty, Internet love could be successful like offline love. Yes, if there is honesty when they meet in person, there won't be any disappointments. They can have a successful relationship too.

yes, derek, that is what exactly I am trying to tell. Many people don't reveal the real facts of them, so when they meet they are disappointed.There are a few who are successful in Internet love too.