Are you going to hide your illness?
By rifnee
@rifnee (1713)
Indonesia
January 26, 2011 10:24pm CST
If you got love someone and you also feel the same way, while you suffer many congenital diseases, know have a disease that can be contagious and dangerous, while there is no treatment that can cure you in time now.
Your lover always keeps his/her health, trying to stay away from disease. If he/she knew your illness likely will definitely stay away from you.
Do you explain your situation, or hiding?
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6 responses
@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
1 Feb 11
Better to tell the truth rather than hide the truth
if he loves us means he also must be able to accept our shortcomings and advantages.
if he can not accept our shortcomings mean he is not sincere love us
@kendedes2011 (2712)
• Indonesia
28 Jan 11
If I really love would I tell him everything.
if he can not accept, then I'm not lucky ... =)
because the love and the desire to own / owned it differently.
@markroderick (888)
• Philippines
27 Jan 11
No, I would tell my loveones if I have an illness. Hiding is not answer to lessen whatever I feel. And If its a contagious one of course I will tell my husband or family about it. So that I won't get them infected too.
@zenki08 (700)
• Philippines
27 Jan 11
Depends on the circumstances. Having an illness is hard if need be I will try to hide my illness if I think that is the only way to keep her. But then again we must always remember that we can't always keep secrets. If the illness is life threatening then you can't hide it forever.
@nakula2009 (2325)
• Indonesia
27 Jan 11
I hide it ..
feeling insecure there of course ...
even so ... slowly of course there are honest turmoil .... and it depends on the time to express ....
and if it should be honest .... and he was asked ...
it was he who tested ...
If the explanation that he was surprised to finally make sense .... mixed with sympathy, empathy, do not believe, want to do something messy but themselves do not know ...
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
27 Jan 11
As of now I don't have any such diseases. However, if identified and I am already in an affair, I would discuss the same with the partner and also go for the treatment. But after telling, if she denies to continue the relationship, I won't blame her, because even if it happens to my case, I MAY do the same. Apparently, I think we should at least discuss the issue with the partner, who ever and how much you love the other party. If I am the person, I will do it and luckily, I am good at health and I don't have any relation with anyone so far.
Thank-s
