Do you Ever flirt with another person when you are not happy with your partner?

@sonusd (1547)
India
January 27, 2011 12:51am CST
Have you ever tried to start flirting with another guy/girl when you are not with your man/woman? Or when you get dissatisfied from your partner? Or you try to short out your problem as soon as possible?
9 responses
• Philippines
27 Jan 11
hello there sonusd! honest to goodness, i already done it when i was pissed off with my first and ex boyfriend. a friend of mine whom i know that had a crush on me, ask me to go on a date with him and i say yes. but though we are enjoying each others company i cant still say that i am totally happy. you still think of your love no matter how you had been mad at him. yes, flirting to somebody is just for awhile and its not good at all. so before taking step to flirt to somebody else think for yourself, what if, your boyfriend/girlfriend is also flirting with somebody else what would you feel. so to keep your relationship intact, keep the fire burning and just be happy on what your partner has and can give into your relationship. :)
@sonusd (1547)
• India
27 Jan 11
If some one get irritates from his/her partner for a longer period and one of the friend who is close to him/her then why it is bad to flirt and go for a date to get relaxed?
• Philippines
27 Jan 11
well i guess, when you are flirting with somebody else its because you are looking something to get out of the place where you are. and that place was to get away with your irritating partner for the meantime. but if you can no longer survive with the fact that you are so annoyed with your partner get out of the relationship because you are only hurting yourself and also others whom you will find yourself flirting or if things can still be managed, talk with your partner heartfully.:)
• Philippines
28 Jan 11
hi sonusd, If i am not happy with my partner i rather end up the relationship than to cheat because it will not help the situation i will just made another sin at the same time i will make the situation worst. happy posting
@savypat (20216)
• United States
27 Jan 11
I don't believe that I ever flirt. I am not a tease and do not feel this is a way to get back at my mate when we have had a fight. I fight fair, yell, call names, slam doors, but never throw anything except water. I learned early never to throw anything solid, when we were newly weds we got in a fight and I through a pillow at him, it hit the lamp and broke it. We were poor and it was the only lamp we had, for many weeks we had to sit in the dark until I could find a used lamp we could afford.
• Canada
28 Jan 11
I used to do this, and I used to think I had every right. But now, I am committed to one man that I believe is the best fit for me for the rest of my life, and we have a daughter together. Since I met him, I haven't been able to flirt with anyone else. Sometimes I get angry with him and think it would serve him right if I did, but even when I'm angry with him, I don't want to hurt him like that. I'd rather be honest and get the issue sorted out. Nothing and no one is perfect, but I don't think there's anyone else out there that is better for me, and I always keep that in the front of my mind no matter what happens.
@piperu (113)
• Indonesia
28 Jan 11
Well untill now, no. I'm kind a little 'loyal' person hahaha... Maybe it sound stupid, but I will start looking another guy when I already finished with the last one.
• United States
27 Jan 11
sometimes! sometimes its just to joke around, if im not happy with my boyfriend i usuly just dumb them but in my past i did love my kids father and just the love fadded and i didnt want to break up with him so id have to say it depends on whats going on
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
27 Jan 11
I've had numerous attempts but it didn't really work out. I guess I don't want to act as if I'm not desperate. Anyways, my boyfriend would know whether I'm still happy or I'm already not.
@turist1 (175)
• Bulgaria
27 Jan 11
People say that I flirt a lot. Which is not true. I just smile a lot and I like to meet interesting people. My boyfriends don't take it serious but others are quite angry. LOL When I'm dissatisfied with my partner, I make him pay for it or make it even.
• Philippines
27 Jan 11
I never tried and i will never attempt. If i am not happy with my man anymore and nothing can really solve the problem, it is better for us to part ways rather than flirt with other guys. No way!