Are you an actor/actress

@savypat (20216)
United States
January 27, 2011 10:02am CST
Many situations in life require that you be someone you are not comfortable with. I have had this problem for years, I am very shy and yet the profession I stumbled into caused me to often be exposed to large numbers of strangers. I must have been a good actress because I did well at my jobs and received promotions to top places with in the company. Do you have to act often in your life and do you enjoy it?
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18 responses
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
28 Jan 11
I know what you mean. I'm shy too, so yes, everywhere and anywhere in society, you gotta keep up or else, you'll go broke. I'm not comfortable with it, but I think I did get sort of used to it after a while.
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• United States
27 Jan 11
Yes I am and I actually was a paid extra in the movie Across the Universe and I was in the music video Yellow Taxi Cab by Vanessa Carlton and Counting Crows
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
27 Jan 11
Somehow I have mostly managed to get away with being myself, but then IT people are SUPPOSED to be different. :D
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@dodo19 (47317)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
27 Jan 11
Actually, right now, I'm about to get my BA and my major is Drama. I do have to take acting classes, and I have actually taken acting classes since I was about 7. So, I would say that I'm comfortable with it. I certainly enjoy doing it. I don't know how things will turn out, but I hope to get more opportunities act in the future. It's something that I would like to do.
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
27 Jan 11
hi pat, guess most of us played roles or actors and actresses some way or the other in this short life here on earth, guess it is but natural so long as it worked to our advantage and did not compromise anyone, good day
@edb225112 (124)
• United States
27 Jan 11
As Shakespeare said "All the world's a stage and men and women play many parts ..." Actors know they only play versions of themselves and so do you. You feel shy but still want attention. You choose jobs which force you to use that part of yourself that wanted that attention. Good for you! You are not really acting but letting a part of yourself shine that you are not really comfortable with. That takes courage and opening yourself up to new parts of yourself. Being open is always best. Each time you do so, you know yourself better. I don't always enjoy doing things outside of my comfort zone in the world, but do enjoy doing them on stage. I don't think of what I do in the world as acting, it is finding out about myself.
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@CarlHalling (3617)
• United Kingdom
3 Feb 11
I trained as a professional actor in London, and worked as such on and off for some 20 years. I'm still officially a member of the profession, but these days, don't act professionally; instead I'm more of a musician and a writer. As for acting in life, I do it to an extent. But it's hard for me to hide, because my eyes reveal so much. However, with strangers, I act to a degree; I play a part; I blend in with my humble down to earth community, and am indistinguishable from my fellows in appearance, even though I'm in a sense different. Yet I feel comfortable with them. I've always been something of an outsider, so have always played something of a part. Although it gets harder with age; which is why I tend to be a loner; a lone creator; solitude is good for creation. Although of course, everything I do is for others.
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• United States
30 Jan 11
I think everyone is an actor in what they do. Many of us have to act all happy to see people when we don't even know them, but it's no big deal you get used to it when you deal with the public. But it's better to do a good job & a lil acting I suppose than to be in trouble for acting like you didn't want to be there and or any type of "attitude". Though ones personal life can get into the way of a good acting job as you have other things on your mind and usually it's the painful ones that bother us and inhibit us from doing our job well.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
30 Jan 11
When I was younger, I would really say that I was a genuine person in all facets of my life. However, I was hurt by some people that I knew in my life so I am not the genuine person that I used to be. I find that there are more times that I am acting in my life now than there are times that I really am genuine. That said, I really don't enjoy acting, but I do it because it is a defense mechanism where I am able to protect myself.
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@sender621 (14894)
• United States
28 Jan 11
I was very shy as a child. I was in a lot of school plays and that took away a great deal of that shyness. I am not an actress now but it was always a dream of mine.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
28 Jan 11
For me not the same in the television I'm in my own way to serve Jehovah God.
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• Philippines
28 Jan 11
Hi savypat! My job also calls for me to be in situations I would rather not be in and to be somebody else I am not. I, too, am shy and reticent. And when I confided this to a friend, she said it doesn't show on my face. In fact, I exude confidence, she said. Ugh! If they only knew! I would rather work behind the scenes, unknown and unseen. And I believe I am most effective when I am in the shadows. But there are times, if not most of the times, when we have to wear different masks to suit the occasion. I am not comfortable in some of the masks but i bear it and somehow get through. And I daresy I am where I am because of these masks, comfortable or not.
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• Indonesia
28 Jan 11
injust thankfull for what we receive because it is a gift froam above,because the world is solarge numbers of people parts of the world people are suffering and the situation is approaching the danger of disaster,really your self in a situation in that many people long to famous and a lot of money,if we were a lot of money set aside to help our brothers because the real world people need each other
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• United States
27 Jan 11
Yeah people tell me all the time tht I should be a model, but idk. I'm not really shy but I don't like to be the center of attention.
@GardenGerty (160696)
• United States
28 Jan 11
I do not really need to act much anymore. When I did a lot of mystery shops, I did, and when I did product demonstrations I did. I have been in plays, and also been a clown. I started being an "actress" when I went to High School. I felt so lost but I acted like I knew what was going on, and I acted like I was older than I was, and I avoided some of the bullying that younger students often experienced when they first went to high school. I also joined the Debate team. I do not know if I "enjoy" it, but I seem to be pretty comfortable with it. My grandmother always said I was going to be a stand up comic, because I would see a product in her house and perform the commercials for it.
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• United States
28 Jan 11
Pat- I'm very introverted to be honest, despite what appearances may show when in public. I'm the type that prefers to work alone, or without an authority figure hounding over me all day. I also prefer to stay at home. I will be the social butterfly at parties and be the good hostess or guest, but it is my ideal situation. Large functions really send my anxiety into over drive, so yes I suppose I am a good actress when it comes to appearing without lack of grace in social situations. Namaste-Anora
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@durgabala (1360)
• India
28 Jan 11
U R right. we have to act , put a false face . smile when u don't like to etc. I was in the marketing line so had to smile and act and had to agree to what customers said and had to convince few things by acting as their friend etc. this is professional life have to do to earn our bread and butter. but there are people who act in personal life too, cheating on spouses, parents and friend. i am not an actor in personal life but love acting on stage. i have acted in many school dramas and won accolades.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
28 Jan 11
As a child i had some inferiority problems. I cam from a bucolic town but studied in a school situated in an urban area. I was so timid i didn't know how to communicate. But as time goes on i learned how to pretend not to be shy anymore. Yes i have been acting and i always pretend to be a woman with no shame, yes the word shame is appropriate for me!
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