Mistaken Identity!

@Lakota12 (42600)
United States
January 28, 2011 7:51am CST
Last Night great nephew that has been staying with us since June. Was talking to people back home think it was his great grandma. and she had got a call from thnk police asking for him there in Tenn. SHe told them he was out of state and then asked why the call . They told her he and a feller had robbed someone! and they wanted him for questioning or to put him in jail. SHe told them it wasnt him for he was in NEvada since June. Here the poor boy being accused of something and being 2,000 miles away . BUt tehre is another kid there with the same name not kin. How would you feel if you got this kind of call about your kids or grandkids? I would think it might be harrasment from the cops?
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
30 Jan 11
Oh my...that's terrible. I would freak out if I got a call like that. If they continued to bother her then I would think it was harrassment! They know now that it wasn't him..there's no reason to bother her anymore. I would be filing a complaint if they did.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
30 Jan 11
thanks for responce. I am sure she will file one if they keep it up what I think is since he had sometrouble in his teens that they just want to add to it some cops are like that but I am so glad he is here with us. he calls us his real family!
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
6 Feb 11
Small town. you might of heard Of Selmer Tn. SOmetimes I dont think the cops have much to do there lololol
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
30 Jan 11
Yes..once they get in trouble some police do watch for the ones they remember. I can really see it happening if it was a small town or city.
@SViswan (12051)
• India
29 Jan 11
Hmmm....same name and the police didn't verify before they made the call? I would be scared and worried for my child too if the police made such a call. People here get bashed up before the police confirm anything....and I wouldn't want any of my kids going through that :(
@SViswan (12051)
• India
29 Jan 11
Good to know he is out of trouble now. If one'e been in trouble before, the police don't consider anything else....no one gives them a chance to correct themselves:( I'm so glad your grandson is with you and out of trouble.
@SViswan (12051)
• India
29 Jan 11
oops...I said 'grandson'...I meant 'nephew'...lol Still groggy this morning...slept in! It's 9.30 am and here I am...all confused!
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
29 Jan 11
yup they should have checked more and the other feller with the same name is black but I am guessing they just heard he name and went with that with out checking farther. he had been in somme trouble back there but out of it now and living with us wheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
6 Feb 11
That would be pretty confronting I guess and quite frightening too. I don't know about harassment though. If he has the same name as someone wanted and they come looking, that's not harassment. That's an enquiry. If they continue to poke and insist he is wanted for enquiries without checking things then that's harassment.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
6 Feb 11
thats true
@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
16 Feb 11
I woud think that it was a mix up because of the names and that they were around the same age. They had no idea what the other kid looked like . They were probably going after everyone with the same name and the same age. Also it would also depend on whether your great nephew had been in trouble with the police before. So don't worry about it. They were not harrassing him. If the one who did it, knew your family or knew your great nephew will he was in town, he might also tell them that he did it to get the blame off of him.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
16 Feb 11
not worried about it and he wasnt in that town he was here 2,000 miles away!
@ElicBxn (63643)
• United States
29 Jan 11
I got pulled over once because some black guy in a car like mine had done something. As soon as he saw the driver was a white woman he said "never mind"
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
29 Jan 11
that was very lucky sometimes cops jump to ideas and run with it with out really thinking about it huh?
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@ElicBxn (63643)
• United States
29 Jan 11
I was really mad, because I KNEW I hadn't done anything! I jumped out of my car and said: "WHAT?!! WHAT?!!"
@celticeagle (168420)
• Boise, Idaho
29 Jan 11
I would be shocked, alittle scared, and upset. The police is probably just doing their job. My first thought would be identity theft but you said there is another guy with the same name. Luckily you folks can prove he was there during the time of the robbery and get the police straightened out.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
29 Jan 11
of course they were but by phone to a 90 year old woman and knowing her I am sure she gave them what for !
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@celticeagle (168420)
• Boise, Idaho
29 Jan 11
Good for her!
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
28 Jan 11
I would have gone mad, these Days that sort of thing should not happen, there is DNA Finger Prints and all that these Days They should have checked before ringing up and trying to arrest the wrong Person Hugsssssssssssssssss
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
29 Jan 11
I hear ya on that one. so glad he was here all that time!
@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
29 Jan 11
Lakota12, This is the very reason why I take my personal identity seriously. I am sure you've heard of how thieves thrive online to steal every personal details they can find on social networking sites, blogs and match making sites. Also, my personal belongings especially driver's license, identity card, passports, PDA and laptop where they will be well kept and password protected. You may never know how they can be used to incriminate us or put us at odds with the authorities. I can understand the complication when it comes to name similarities and how it could get us messed up. However, I thought the authorities should have conducted careful checks before calling or turning up at your place to make such request or allegation. This is purely some miscarriage of authority and plain negligence. The investigating officer must have been sleeping on the job. I am surprised here.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
29 Jan 11
DIdnt scall here called to grandma in Tennn 2,000 miles fro here but yup they should have investigated more
• India
29 Jan 11
Hello my friend Lakota12 Ji, I think you have clearly defined in your subject heading. Also I agree what you think in yoiur closing sentence, it is purely harassmenty by police. Yoiu should shoot out highest post by a letter about his presence 2000 miles awy with some proofs.Thanks. May God bless You and have a great time.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
29 Jan 11
thanks for your respnce and if thy investigate more they will find the plane ticket to him in June was for one way. And we dont have to proof anything they are no longer looking for him
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@kawalnarang (1095)
• Trinidad And Tobago
28 Jan 11
It is harassment yes,, this happened to me once,,in 1988,,but then again,,in this day and age,,at least the public should be glad that the police are working,,sometimes they understand when u talk
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
29 Jan 11
Since the cops there know tat this is a 90 year old woman think they should have gone to the house but then to think they should have looked more into it before they accused the boy of course we know he couldnt have for he is 2,000 miles away from Tenn.
• United States
28 Jan 11
I would be outraged and livid and I would not let the policeman off the hook that easy. I would make such a stink that the policeman would have regretted having made the mistake. I realize that sometimes policeman can make mistakes, but what if the grandma would have had a heart attack or something, this type of news is very heart wrenching. I would hope that the police made an investigation first before they call and made such accusation. It would be easy to show up and calmly ask about his where about instead of a phone call. Gee!
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
28 Jan 11
Yeah its a wnder she didnt have one as she IS 90 years old!. and I understand that the cops there do call poeple instead of going to the house dont sound to e like they investigated or they would have known he wasnt there since JUne!
@murtaza45 (173)
• India
29 Jan 11
what last night for mistake to your friends to says to bad think for friend to hungry to your staying us with june.so your mistake to not proper to friends our daily time best friend now mistake to your gate time.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
29 Jan 11
thanks so much for your responce