miles a way love...

Philippines
January 29, 2011 9:39pm CST
I kept on wondering how two people express their love when they are miles apart? I had seen many people had a long distance relationship that didn't work. I really wonder why. i haven't experience long distance relationship but I really find it hard for both person involve. I now not all long distance relationship last but how did the person involve manage their relationship to last long?
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9 responses
• Philippines
30 Jan 11
hello khikay, I don't know exactly how it works but I ahve a co-worker who's in a long distance relationship. They have been together for 3 years now and it works for her and her boyfriend. We all can see her whenever she's on break, she has her earphones on as if like talking to her self. She would her photos in every angle of our office to make her boyfriend see what she is doing. asking her boyfriend if the color of her make up suits her clothes etc. It is funny to see her doing that everyday but if that's how things work for them I think it doesn't matter looking and acting like crazy, anyway!
• Philippines
30 Jan 11
I'm in a long distance relationship right now. All I can say is it's hard to maintain it. There will always be suspicions and arguments involved. I think the basic thing you'll need if you're in one is trust. You have to maintain your trust to each other for the relationship to last.
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@anne25penn (3305)
• Philippines
30 Jan 11
In today's technology, even if you are apart it won't be hard to communicate with the one you love. My boyfriend lives down south of Manila, while I am in the East. It takes around two hours travel for me to get to his place, and the same goes for him. Plus the fact that our schedules never coincide with each other. But we make the most of what time we have to talk to each other through chatting, text messaging and calls.
@simonelee (2715)
• China
31 Jan 11
Hello there. It is very hard to have a lover who's living far from you but if your love is pure then there's no reason for you to give up. I'm in a long distance relationship for seven years and we encountered ups and down and for so many times i almost let go of her. I'm so lucky to have a partner who have strong faith that this thing will surpass. I've been waiting for my partner this long and every time i wake up i feel that my love grow.
@rage35 (344)
• Philippines
30 Jan 11
Good day friend! I am on a long distance relationship right now and its a kinda hard to deal with it but I am getting into this situation that we are far from each other. We are just making our conversations through text or phone call, as well as using the internet technology, chatting on a live webcam. We have been 1 year and 2 months now and hoping that we will last longer till we will decided to marry each other.
• Philippines
31 Jan 11
nice one. mine didn't work. hahaha. so much for love. hahaha
@rage35 (344)
• Philippines
31 Jan 11
It's ok. Just keep on loving and for sure, you will find the perfect partner of your life. see yah!
@slayer23 (35)
• Philippines
31 Jan 11
it's no way far different from managing a relationship at close distance. with a long distance relationship, communication, love, respect and trust are a must. both must work hard enough to make the relationship work. it won't work if only one will make up for it. Communication and trust is the key for the long distance to work.
• India
30 Jan 11
Well i am in a long distance relationship right now and to tell you the fact, we guys fight daily because we have some or another problem everytime. But at the end of the day we sort out our probs and start expressing love to each other again. It has become like a schedule that we fight in daytime, sort out by evening and again talk nicely at night. And we have been together for almost one and a half year now. And we havent even met each other though there exists love and trust. We may be a thousand km away from each other, but our love will never fade. And we shall be marrying each other as soon as she becomes a graduate. Hard to believe, but true for us.
@hlgmdt (300)
• Philippines
30 Jan 11
Based on a close friend's situation, I could say that long distance relationships do work. Of course, its survival depends on the people involved with it, how committed they are and how serious they are in keeping the relationship. My friend's girlfriend is staying in another country, and they have been together since our university days. With technological advancement, communication isn't really a problem.
30 Jan 11
It's pretty hard, I had to say. My boyfriend and I are seperated.One in france,one in china.It's a tough time for us. Missing each other too much. we can only keep in touch with each other by email or phone calls. But we all have own stuff to do. so sometimes can not make calls or reply mail in time. It can make many disunderstandings.