...And I should Have Been SAD and Really UPSET

Hi thesids, I can say that you are a strong man with a positive thinking! Many people in your situation will definitely feel really upset. Many people fail to look at the positive side of the unlucky day they had, and they feel like they are having the worst thing on them. Sometime, after a hard work and failure, you will need time to rest and relax yourself and then come back to work, and who knows, you will get a much better results and outcome. Cheers & Good Luck!

Hi thesids I am sorry this has happened to you it is terrible and it looks like we are both having a bad time at the moment as I just started a Discussion as well how everything happens at once I am so sorry that this did not work out for you and I hope that you can get another chance on doing this

hello thesids, Good thinking,instead of feeling bad,you enjoyed and treated the situation positively . Last night,i was really upset and down. I cried my heart out with friends(thanks to the internet) But like what i've wrote to my discussion, "he" called me that gives me confusion (didn't help my situation last night) I knew there is always reason behind everything (negative/positive reason) In your situation,maybe something much better is waiting dear. Just keep up the faith and believe in yourself. I know you are strong,as i am (but the warrior in me cries like a child this time) Have a great day always and wish you all the best of everything on your wedding anniversary

Hi sweetie. I would have sued the municipality for loss of income. They actually do it here. TATA.

Hi anna, you did a good thing instead of thinking your assignments got failured or cancelled but it is a sad to one, our efforts will go waste there we feel bad or depress about it. You have a good ideas infact, do it again or try it another assignments and see, sure may get through. My lot discussions don't worry, post another discussion no problem and don't be sad go ahead as like ever. Regarding Municipal water give a complaint against it. Municipal water here in Hyderabad also we don't have specific time for it though they fix the time but some times vary then all our programs will change, we given written complaint against this matter to the municipality let see now new government what action will take on this issue. Have a nice day anna.

Hi friend.. :) Too sad that you are facing these much problems. But its good that you are still enjoying it and having time to meet your relatives... Well lost is lost and it never gonna comeback.. So stay happy for ever.. I know its easy in saying for me.. As I gets too much angry whenever such things happen with me.. But my Dad told me the same lines.. And i feel relax.. So I passed it to my friend..

Come on man there is no reason for you to be sad.do remember an upset mood makes our mind idle.if things goes wrong at right time..don't get off..just tell yourself next time you will plan and would do it in correct way.I had lost over $2200 last year in month of Nov & Dec but I didn't put myself off because I knew being upset I won't gain anything but loose.if things goes wrong with me I act like spider..try try till you succeed.

very sorry to hear that sid... yes..i also got the notification about your discussion being deleted... but don't mind these hings sid...just keep learning from the failures..and try not to repeat them...yes sometimes when i used to lose money in forex...i also used to enjoy the freedom for sometime.....but later i still try to recover my money from it...

well, as the saying goes, we have to move on. i am glad you are open-minded and light that you were able to take these things with a smile (probably). things happen. and sometimes we cannot really control them. with that, we always have to have something inside to keep us from standing, and fighting the odds. take care!

I think you need not to be sad. Because there's time for us to experience something like that. Maybe you can make it next time, friend...

Hello thesids, Sorry to read this. I saw that one of your discussions has been removed. It is difficult to make a parallel between a discussion removed at myLot and 2 months of work lost. I believe that your power and connectivity problems are still there ? If yes, you can have another tile falling on you next month. Can't you try to fix something -- buying an uninterruptible power supply, a generating set, batteries... ??? -- to avoid this in the future ? I know that it will be not free, but maybe a better investment than a laptop actually for you ? I understand that you have hard times : the best to do is to counterattack, no ? And we are always stronger after difficulties...

Hey Sids, i saw that your discussion for paypal is deleted. I don't know why is that, may be they didn't want to ruin the reputation of paypal or like that, but it was stupid, because we could share real experience with paypal's system and we could trust each other that the information is real, not fake, because we are friends. I'm sorry for your lost chances. It's getting more and more cruel lately. I'm pushing my boyfriend to start working same like you, because he is in pain with his kidney stones and he can't move out for a normal job, but it's harder even for him to find real pay, who pay. I would be happy if i know what helped you to find clients, was it because of many years experience in that area or people, who knew that you work good and helped you? I'm happy that still there are things which make you smile. You are so positive and peaceful people that i'm not surprised that even in that bad days you keep looking for positive things around you.

Yeah that is a very sad situation happened to you. But I believe you have a back up or option action to cover up such failure. And I'm happy that your still positive and happy to face the reality whatever situation you are facing now. So cheer up to go on and I do believe you can get more than you lost in a few days happened to you... see you around

Hi buddy! I am shocked after reading your discussion. You commented to one of responders that you will discuss with your wife about buying an inverter - I suggest at least buy UPS so that you can at least save your work in time. I think it is more important and the first thing before the laptop you described (please don't mind). Like woman's nature and weather, no one can predict electric supply in some part of India. So we have to be prepared for any circumstances. You are facing Internet connectivity problem also. Is DSL connections available in your area? - I think the answer is no; otherwise, you would have not come up with this discussion at all. Since this has happened, you must learn from this and get some good connection. It will be fruitful as you are presumably earning good through Internet. I remember you commented to VisaVis that you have no plans for those three problems you have faced, but I suggest make a plan before this happens again. Anyways, Ups and Downs are part of life. Everybody has good days and bad days. What matter is getting over it. The person who comes over, like you, will always be successful. I hope by now you have come up with some plans. I reiterate, at least buy UPS so that you can save your work in time. I am very sure that you will gift you wife something, although, less expensive, but better than a laptop - something that shows and symbolizes your love for her. (Please accept my warm greeting for your wedding anniversary in advance) And, if you need medical checkups, do not delay them due to this reason. Please note, when you are healthy, you can make more than this. I wish you good luck!

Bhai! You are one of the most positive people I know!If I had lost gigs because of things out of my control, I would be liviD. It is one thing when you try but fail but to get cut off because of poor connectivity? That's wrong! i hope thibgs pick up soon. And remember if you ever need to talk , write me.

Hello Sid, I got the notification about the deletion and the topic was well discussed. It is sad to lost one topic after discussing it well. But I am concerned about the other losses of yours. You have to do something to restore the connectivity in a good manner otherwise how can you earn something. But I really appreciate your positive attitude.

Too sad to hear it from you. which is that site from which we get paid 350 usd for two assignments and which is that site which denies the assignment for being a little late.. i would like to know that site so i can also make money.. and if possible help u.. and its very sad to hear that mylot had removed one of your discussion.. you shouldnt be happy ,. dont u have any sadness on loosing all these things..

Hi Sid, Practically it would be difficult for you. In fact I don't know anything on your whereabouts. But if circumstances cooperate, shift to some city area where you can afford and less expensive area where water, electricity and other conveniences are surrounded. I think you mentioned about the landlord some where so that you may be on live and licence. If so, once the term get over, think of some ideas in such a way, where all can come under one roof. You have limitations (physically) so that you may require some one's assistance most often. So a moving around can resolve some of your problems and at least you can submit your projects in time. We cannot wait till other things come favourable to us. When all come together, we may be at 80 or 90. Thank-s

Hopefully everything gets better for you. That has happened to me lots of times on things not being sent right because of the internet. I learned to save it on my computer before sending it for in case it doesn't get sent right I will still have it to send later. That would be upsetting. It sounds like you try to not dwell on it so you can be a happier person which is a good thing. Stress isn't good for our health.

If I was in your shoes, I would be messing and trashing anything I see, series of bad events happening, its like luck is not on your side. But I admire your positivity. Not everyone has that kind of attitude. Keep up that good attitude because that would be your greatest key to survive the challenges of everyday. :)