scammed...what would you do if you were in my situation?

@obe212003 (2299)
Philippines
January 31, 2011 7:27pm CST
recently i was scammed on an online purchase of a quad core processor after joining an online webtrading site... through my own initiative, the whole scheme involved another member from the trading site and an unfortunate high school student who was lured and deceived with him receiving cash incentive for claiming the money i sent through a local courier using his school's ID. The courier gave me the details on the kid's identification and i was able to contact the school's principal who was able get information on the identity of the main culprit. Fortunately i was able to get through him, he admitted the scam, apologized, and returned the money back to me. i wanted to teach him a lesson, file charges, but unfortunately doing so would also implicate the high school student [actually he is a graduating student]. i talked to the principal, the student's adviser and the mother, who all confirmed that the kid is doing good in school. i did'nt push through of filing the complaint and instead just accepted the culprit's apology. What is bothering me is that there is also another member who was scammed by this guy and right now, i am really bothered if i did the right thing of just letting the culprit scott-free for the sake of the high school student's future.. what would have you done in case? any ideas please..
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2 responses
@stevieboi19 (1419)
1 Feb 11
It's one of those iffy situations but end of the day the kid scammed you so if you were to take him to court for it would be perfectly understandable on the other hand you can see how it will greatly affect him but the trouble in today's society is will this kid repeat the scam thinking he's got away with this one to some extent hopefully not but if he does it wouldn't be nice for the others out there who fall for the scam. Also the kid should know his actions have consequences he clearly knew what he was doing if set a scam up he should know the implications he could face if he gets caught. So my only advice is if your satisfied with his apology and you truly believe he's sorry then you can give him the benefit of the doubt but if you've some doubt then you should press on with the matter on legal terms.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
2 Feb 11
i really wanted to teach this guy a lesson, but since there are innocent parties involved, i opted to accept his apology..
2 Feb 11
That's very nice of you lets just hope he doesn't retry the scam.
@nainesh1 (1656)
• India
1 Feb 11
You did your part well and truly right way, we have to give a person second chance to come back on track. Now you have noticed that he is still scamming the people and if you can contact the person who was scammed send him the details of that guy and he will do the rest.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
1 Feb 11
Yes, i did send the details of what transpired, and he was also contacted by the culprit who asked for forgiveness and promised to return his money. thanks for the response, it's nice to know i did something appreciated as opposed to what i really wanted to do in teaching the guy a lesson..