Is it wrong to still fall inlove with your x?

statistically many people are doing it. but morally? its a devastation to the so called FAMILY, you shouldn't have married. infidelity kills trust. not from your husband or your mother or father, but from your children, eventually thou they would say they understood, but deep inside their soul, you are killing the sacred word of trusting anyone from there time forth. but hey life aint fair so, they the not fair sometimes.

Of course for me it is not wrong to feel that you still have feelings for your past boyfriend. But since you are married already it is wrong to still long for him. Past is past and it is not normal to have two men in your life. You are cheating with your husband because you still communicate with your ex boyfriend. Just move on with your life and try to accept the facts that he is a thing of the past and you are moving on and your happy with your married life.

if you were single, then i think it's not a big deal to have two men in your life. but now that you're married, it's different. are you sure about how you feel about your ex? isn't that just a simple rekindling feeling? a feeling that's being revoked because you were once in love with him? as you said, you recently just communicated again... so how sure are you that you are in love with him still? and if you were in fact, in love with him ALL this time, why did you get married in the first place with another man? you're being unfair to your husband. you have to straighten things out. set things right. either way, someone will get hurt. but staying married with your husband while in love with another man is just really unacceptable. it's not fair. put yourself in the shoes of your husband. how would you feel if you find out that your husband is still in love with his ex? Im not saying it's entirely wrong to fall in love with your ex, all im saying is if you really do feel strongly about it, then you must do the right thing and be fair to your husband. be honest to him. and be honest to yourself.