I Want to Forget This Date...

Ah happy to see someone who feels exactly like me. I wish to forget so many dates from my mind eurekafemme, not just one. Every time those dates appear in the calender, those old memories hit me up so badly that i feel like giving up. Wish we had an erase button in our mind to forget such painful memories. But unfortunately we do not have. :(

Hello dear friend! Sad to know that you wanted to erase a date in your married life,am I right..your wedding day? I believe men are really not into special dates as my hubby sometimes forget important dates in our lives but I do understand him and he always makes up with me if he happens to forget it,hehe! I guess we both have the same habit of it. I'm not sure of the status of your married life so I don't really know what to say about it. As for your question,I really don't ignore or forget significant dates of my life for they are so memorable and important to me,it's already part of my history and those memories made me as what and who I am now. Take care friend!

Sorry to hear that your Marriage is like this. I am sure this is normal for you to wish there was more to it than this, and that he would want to remember and Celebrate it with you. Especially since you got married in February which is supposed to be the month for Love considering it is the month of Valentines day, etc. Just try to take time to enjoy things you two enjoy together and maybe in time he will want to remember and be more thoughtful as well.

i may not be responding to your every posts but i have read them, most of them. you know, i've been too busy with my little zayzay. one date that i thought i want to forget is my birthday. but i think otherwise. it was in high school when i met my first true love, i guess. i courted that girl for almost a year. she promised me she will accept my love when my birthday comes. and so she did. and so we were lovers for almost a year. but all our dreams end with nothing when she broke-up with me, a day before my next birthday. our first year anniversary. i felt so sad. i was too down. and even at school, in college, all my grades went down. today, i have no knowledge of her whereabouts.

Anniversaries are a funny thing. A date in the past that we constantly mark against every year as if there was a great prize at the end if we get a big number. When in reality it is just a number, and the more important thing is the relationship at the moment. If you really want to forget the date, then do so. Don't let tradition and society dictate what you should or shouldn't remember(or forget for that matter).

hello Eurekafemme, Well most of the man in this world doesn't remember dates especially the special date it seems they always have temporary lost of memory you can find a rare man who remember special date on the exact time, everyone wants to celebrate special occasions in their life that's why i understand you maybe your husband doesn't have calendar besides it's only February 01, maybe he will surprise you tomorrow. I don't have any particular date or memory that i would like to forget because for me every moment is special even it turn out to be hell sometimes . cheer up! happy posting

Hi. eurekafemme. I don't forget dates that are very important to me at all. I usually remember dates that are sacred to me. I am sorry that you don't want to remember your anniversary date. Your husband must have did something to hurt you, for you not to want to remember your date anymore. I am sorry.

This date you dont like to remember is the date that is very important to us coz this is our anniversary day church marriage. But the truth now is I really forgot this day and only i remember when i read this post. Now I know the purpose of my husband why he wanted me to go home is just because of this. We are now on 20th year wedding anniversary and 21 years on civil marriage. How nice to count in and the truth is he never left me to turn in to other woman. Maybe I am turning to another man but he is not he is still faithful to his promise as husband. How lucky I am coz he still love me in spite of my sins and being unfaithful to him. But i never turn left from vows. A common sense....:)

Hi dear, Here there is an issue. As long as you try to forget, the more you remembered. That you may be aware of also. So, if you really don’t want to remember such dates, never have a mention of it. As you said, even I have my own fantasy about love, but bad luck, I have to alone go for it. I think in this case we both are in the same scale. I know that many of us have such memorable or remarkable dates which is supposed to be so great and sweet but turned to ugly or worst. It is our ‘thoughts’ that motivates. Even I have such few dates which I don’t like to be mentioned but all are not a personal one or not so touching. In your case I know what exactly you mean. For all girls, such date would be a land mark in their life and as and when time passes, the importance get dim due to our daily life specialities. Such moments will become precious only whenever our partner also have the same feeling to us and if not, we will try to forget about them. Sometime even I think of forgetting such moments. But I have something else as a remarkable one, and for me that is the gem and not the real one (hard to understand what I mean?) However, try to be positive and visualize the date as a better one – because in your life that can be the first of that sort. Assuming that make it precious instead of keeping as a dam thing. Thank-s

Not a good thing to hear that someone taken for granted, ignores, did nothing on your wedding anniversary. It looks like you really love your husband and he feels nothing on you. I'm so sorry to tell you but its enough ground to forget him. Letting him go and accepting that everything is over is the best thing I can suggest to you. Wedding day is the best day ever since that is the day when you both take your vow and promised to God that you both do your best until the end. My parents are not good also with each other. As a child I know how it feels and much painful if you still stick on one thing that the other part really don't care about. "Don't hold on when there's nothing to hold on to". Think about what is best for your family. Be matured enough to decide. Always ask some help if you can't handle those things. Good luck! Good day! God bless!

Hi eurekafemme, indeed dates are important because they mark milestones in our life. For example, your own birthday, the day you give birth, etc. I feel sorry for you that your man did not remember or treasure the date, but not all men are like yours. I do remember dates quite well, and depending on the importance. For you, rather than fantasize about love, give yourself a chance. Get to know other people. Find something worthwhile to replace the date you wish to forget. Something happy so that when the day comes again next year, you have something to remember it by. It need not be as spectacular as your original date, but something nice enough for you to smile, even just for a little while. OK?