Wanting to take friendship further?
By markroderick
@markroderick (888)
Philippines
February 3, 2011 7:32am CST
I have a problem. There is this guy that I really like but we are only friends. MY best girl friend introduced us and we get along great, but there are 2 other girls in my department who like him too. People think that we'd be good together, but he seems to pay more attention to other people. I want him to like me what do I do?
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4 responses
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
12 Feb 11
Taking a friendship to thnext level can lead to something wonderful. You have to be sure your friendship can take the change. Some relationships are better left as friends while others find a bliss they never knew before.
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
9 Feb 11
Honestly, you can't force anybody to like you unless he likes you right from the start. I guess you have to learn to balance your emotions so that he won't get irritated. Treat him as a friend and maybe one day, he'll realize that he's already falling for you.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
3 Feb 11
Hi dear,
As the continuation to the earlier discussion, I am still telling you to give up all your thoughts and at least once you try to understand his mind. So, if he has to say one reply to it. May be good or bad, at least your long years of journey through him can be stopped or continued. Act now, it is your turn now.
Thank-s
@PreciousTT (34)
• Canada
4 Feb 11
How about actually talking to him about how you feel. I know that could be a hard and awkward situation but at least you would know how he feels about you. If you really like him and every time you hang out with him your feelings are getting stronger, it is going to be really difficult if he ends up with some one else. I dont know how close you guys are as friends but find a way to tell him so it doesn't maybe freak him out or feel uncomfortable around you after words if he is not feeling you in that way. Or feel him out with questions with out it being obvious next time you guys are hanging out and see how he answers them you may some hints, if you ask the right questions at the right time. Remember you dont want to make it obvious you poking his mind for info.... Does that make sense?... Anyway Good Luck- May the best girl win?
