never meet my girlfriend
By sammyceng
@sammyceng (53)
Indonesia
February 3, 2011 10:10am CST
hi' i just want ask about my relationship with my girlfriend i knew her by phone my friend introduce me to her. she to young im 26 years old and she 14 years old and i never meet her cause long distance relationship. every time i want meet her , she says to busy with her school, just want meet me certain day. so what i should do? should i wait her graduate or i break her and try new one cause my age is near to age of married?
5 responses
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
3 Feb 11
hi, I wish you stop wasting your time on such a relationship, go find a girl that is legally of the right age, and some body you can at least see from time to time and not just thru the phone
, she does not want to meet with you? Are you sure she is really your girl friend or just a young girl playing games on the telephone
, she does not want to meet with you? Are you sure she is really your girl friend or just a young girl playing games on the telephone@sammyceng (53)
• Indonesia
3 Feb 11
from her voices she serious but i wanna relationship more than by phone like u said i least i can see her, thank you for your support too
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
4 Feb 11
Welcome, but I want to give further advice, not to make fun of the situation but to leave something brotherly, you cannot judge a girl's seriousness by the sound of her voice over the phone,you have to see her man, hold her hands and wrap your arms around her while staring at her straight in the eye to melt her like butter 
, girls may show resistance but if she truly loves you , she's gonna give. Don't waste your age 26, go find a real girlfriend, I was single when I was that age, my father was alive then and I did not worry about paying bills, my business was booming and I had a car and a big bike, do not let time slip you by, enjoy your young life because it's not gonna last forever and please not with a minor.
, girls may show resistance but if she truly loves you , she's gonna give. Don't waste your age 26, go find a real girlfriend, I was single when I was that age, my father was alive then and I did not worry about paying bills, my business was booming and I had a car and a big bike, do not let time slip you by, enjoy your young life because it's not gonna last forever and please not with a minor.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
3 Feb 11
Hi sammyceng and welcome to myLot.
I would say she is too young and although matters of the heart at times are not controllable, it would be advised definitely to wait as she is too young for a serious relationship, of which later she may resent.
If the love is meant to be she will come back at the proper age. Best of luck to you and wishing you a success with myLot.
Please do come back to your discussion and reply to your responses as this will assure further success with the myLot community.
@sammyceng (53)
• Indonesia
3 Feb 11
yes,now that i can do is wait for she graduate and enough age for me and her to do serious relationship but that mean my age more old, and im affraid off is she meet other guy which at her age and forget me
@jesi06 (279)
• United States
5 Feb 11
I think it's best if you don't meet her. You are definitely too old for her. She may be telling you she is busy because deep down, she knows better than to meet someone that much older than her. I was once that 14 year old and my ex husband 24 and it did not go very well. We had nothing in common for starters and I wish now I would have listened to people then when they told me the same thing so many here are telling you....don't do it. Look for someone around your own age, you will have much in common with them, and by having such a good relationship can flourish. Good Luck!
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
3 Feb 11
Break up with her and find someone who's not a statutory rape hazard, for the love of God. This is not even an advice, this is a warning coming from your future lawyer.
@princess8881 (1630)
• South Korea
3 Feb 11
I saw a post on facebook too that my other friend is in relationship but then the girl is like 15 or 16 I dont know.. and then lots of his friends comment that the girl is to young and he could even be in jail...
after a while his status was back to single:) maybe wait till her 18th birthday..? nd dude theres of partying to do at your age Im sure you'll find one soon
