If I can't Comment on you, that means I got "LAZY"

Each one of us can choose to do things however we please. If you start a topic and comment back to responses immediately then it keeps it active and you are more likely to receive some more. You don't have to keep watching the page. You can go here: http://www.mylot.com/nr/editNotifications.aspx and put your notifiers to 'on' then check your mail and you will see whether you have new responses or not.

Hello there, at first, i thought it was going to be an empty discussion that's why i said but look at it now having three page of responses. i just don't want to keep people from waiting from my comments. besides, I've been here a long time that i didn't want to become a response collector here. for now, i just wanted to be open with topics and comment when i have the time. and yes, I MISseD MAKING NOVEL POST for a long time. but my brain gets tired thinking too muc

I understand. =) I do actually have all those boxes checked for notifications. But I am the same with my email as I am with discussions here. I close it. (Is that an unusual practice? =P ) Maybe it could fall under a time management thing... for example, one might prefer to check for responses every hour or so rather than every 5 minutes, so that one can do something else in that 1 hour. So still I say it comes down to personal preference. And by that I mean it includes your style, the way you do things, your priorities. Even the topic or your purpose for posting could be a factor. For instance, if you had a question that needed an urgent response, you might check back on it more often. The amount of free time you have (and this can be variable day to day) is also a factor. My point was just that I don't think it is absolutely required that you comment immediately on responses to your discussion (or even to comment at all... but that's another topic already =P ). But it appears some people might think it rude or being lazy. I hope they see that it is not necessarily so. In any case, you've made a good point. It is indeed more likely to receive responses and keep a discussion going if one comments immediately. And people can do so if they wish. But people who don't wish to, for one reason or another, are also free not to. (Personally, I will keep in mind these tips. =P So far, I've collected: (1) keep new discussions short so more likely that people will read it, (2) comment in timely manner to keep discussion active and get more responses. Of course, in the end, it will be up to me if I follow these tips, and if I will follow them each and every time or only sometimes. =P ) (And I see I've written a novel again. It's my disease, it seems. =P )

Why did you give up with your movies? You were so enjoying them at the time and then all of a sudden you stopped and I have never understood that

Hello TITA D, NO, I think I am just lazy as it is, but i wonder why? last night i thought about watching a Computer game on youtube that i realized that i do need to bring back that kind of entertainment and that is playing PC games most specially the simulation ones as for "never" that's impossible, unless the topic i made is useless i could always have the time to respond. just not immediately

Hello Carmela, I am sorry but it's been a while since i went on studying that's why i couldn't relate that much to your discussions. but i know if i do respond it would remind me how hard it was to be in school

Hello Daeckardt, oh, ok. i don't do either but i try my best to exagerrate and be more elaborate but nothing close to more than two lines since the responder isn't much to say. last night probably i just couldn't do it anymore but thanks for dropping by. have a nice day to you

Hello Suggar, Usually what distract me is surfing other sites or other post that i tend to loose my concentration on posting. so, now even though am distracted to other post, i just concentrate on one discussion to the other.. i just wonder why the people will less post doesn't respond much to our discussions, i still find it so weird anyways, have a nice day.

Hello Tiffnkeat, So far, I've been really missing the moments where i can and really respond to all of my friends topics.but i seemed to have been left behind, for now am doing my best to catch up the times and do the best i could to respond. before i even copy past their discussion links to respond to later on. maybe next few hours from now would suffice thanks a lot.

I'm in and out a lot!

that is so sad Phaedra I do hope you can recover or feeling better a bit now compare before. i do read post too than responding, there are times that i felt so drained by simply reading the discussion. nice to see actually since it's the first time i have encountered you in my 3 years being here.lolz

Hello Zandi, thanks a lot. well, am glad there is no time limit here but most of the time i felt that i am limited to do mylotting. i have discussions that lacks replying but probably because i was kinda wrong suggestion on that discussion

Hello Blondie, Well, for me it's simple if i can relate i can respond or comment, If not i don't bother.maybe i should start responding to those who "respond" to me, that way it would be easy to see who are the ones I owe a respond or comment to it's fun communicating with other people and i like so much

Hello Anora, I wish i could have respond more to your some discussions most specially about the card discusions that you made but I couldn't relate to them. but am still thinking that helped that i asked from you the last time, i just couldn't sacrifice my five dollars in it. besides, the magic might not work on me as i am far away lolz

Hello RoseKiss, Well, depends if the discussion is good, even if the starter doesn't comment back i don't care. but there are times when i feel that a response that i make is so important to that user that she or he couldn't careless that i ended up being upset or irritated but not to the point of saying it out loud and badly to that user. for now, I am commenting and nice to you see around. have a nice day.

Hello Hardworkinggurl, I agree, life is beyond mylot that every single year, i see a lot of new generation users. only the likes of lamby,dawn,zandi,rberon,neil and the others that i have seen lately are the ones who remained. of course, it's nice to have you around and hoping that you will stay here in the more years to come

and it happens just recently, but i try my best to comment all the time. responding to others topics is a different story, how ever. i guess we all feel that way. have a nice weekend

Hello Louie, Well, not that busy yet since the permit and other documentation is still being processed. once done, and construction is set to go then i won't be much here to be online. as for my nephews accident, he's completely fine now since january. no, am not that busy comparing what's gonna happen afew months from now.

Hello Anne25, Yeah, it's just not that much energy anymore, most specially if you have work. I, for one understand why you couldn't comment on them that much which is very reasonable indeed. don't worry I understand and I hope if you have time just post here, besides, if i have work, there's no way i will have time to lot

Hello flagella, Why does that happen? in some point in time we have run out of words to say when our brain process a lot of information to make us say something. well, i don't want to be oblige knowing that i don't have something to say or at least something productive and nice to say. sometimes what I say, people will take notice of it or not

Hello Eurekafemme, Well, there's nothing that others would do if you don't comment or not. basically, every one has their hyper time to post when ever they wanted to. and it is something that i have lacked now even though i have much time to be in mylot, i have little time to be in the spot of making more post than i used to be.like you, am also bringing it back little by little.

Hello GLoryacam, Yes, you're right. but unfortunately, I am still feeling lazy today but i need to force myself sometimes to comment since i don't sleep late that much at nightyeah, the points are important and it's useless when youre not earning much that you spent on your internet use.