Are men afraid of clingy women?

HELLO sweet! Men are truly afraid of clingy women, not in the way we imagine it to be, but because men don't like to deal with such a situation. These type of women are said to zapped their energy and since they don't also like hurting them and making them cry, they cringed when women acts like this for then, men don't know how to deal with them.It makes them breath easier if their girlfriends or partners live a life of their own, have their own group of friends, have a career of their own and can definitely stand on her own, even without her man. Although men likes women to be dependent on them sometimes, it don't bode them well if a woman's world wholly revolves on her man. For then, she would end up choking her man, making him gag with her clinginess and her seemingly interference with his own life. For men, women like these should be avoided like the plague for these women would make her man's life her own, making him bereft and totally out of sync in his own world. It's normal to be jealous sometimes, but if you don't let your man breath easy and suffocates him with over-jealous and so possessive nature, you'd end up losing the man love.

Well, yes. Couples need to give one another some personal space. It's healthy for any relationship. And yes, men are usually the ones who get affected more when they feel like being boxed up. Personally, I don't think terrified would be the correct word to describe how they'd feel towards a clingy girl friend. They're just a bit wary and concerned. I for one always consider taking relationships to the next level but I just don't jump right into it, baggage and all. I need to consider if I'm prepared to be with someone with traits that I find say annoying to me. It might just create friction between us in the future.

I have been with a few clingy women, and I have to say that they didn't scare me. They did, however, manage to piss me off most of the time.

Some are, myself I'm afraid of clingy men! :D

I believe alot of guys are clingy and i can say this about my ex because we lived together and did most everything together until one day he said he needed his space but then found out he was cheating on me then of course it was over but literally i wanted to do everything with him and be with him the most and be with him more then my friends. My boyfriend now is alays wanting to do everything with me and we do most everything together anyways so at the age i am now i feel that we should be doing everything together anyways so...

I think that in generally males want to be in love but not want to be Chained.. We want our love and freedom, it is ok to ask where and with how you go out but don't ask why and don't ask why you don't take me with you... At least this is what i think has a male.. I like some times to feel that my girl is a bit Jealous but i like it the most when she is put her trust in me and don't ask to many questions.. :)

I don't think that men are particularly afraid of women who become too clingy and demanding. I believe that men could get annoyed by them. they may seem them as being weak and unsure of themselves. Men may look for women who are not afraid of showing their independence and will. At least they won't be accused of being too clingy that way.

It is scary in a way that it is a form change. And the life as they know it would come to an end if they continued a relationship with clingy women. Because they would surely be wanting change from the men, and they don't like that. And the men that are most afraid, are the ones that don't want change.

I do not believe I could stand it if a man was too clingy let alone me be. I believe that when we are in a relationship we have to have an understanding where as we can trust and be entrusted. Being jealous can be a result of a couple factors, such as insecurity and or the partner giving off way too much reason to be.

Who would like clingy person? If I were a man, I would really get irritated of women who has the habit to snoop, cling and whatever you call. Yeah, maybe its devoting their time to the man but they should put it on the right direction. Some are overacting and gets easily paranoid about that idea but that's reality. Your man have also their lives. If you get too clingy then you are signing your own deathwish on relationship matter.

Freedom is what we have. Even marriage does not stop us from doing what pleases us. But of course, you do things now with few restrictions and limitations. Some would say that this is how it should go because it is an obligation, I say that it should be done out of the emotion you have for your other half. Love is love right? We need time away from the other but to feel needed at times makes things sweet.

I think it is depends on different situations. A clingy gf must love her bf so much, so that she wants to be with him as long as she could. For someone, it is a good thing. Like me. I don't afraid my gf always around me, and I'd like to take her everywhere I go. But there are others who want more private space, they will sure afraid about a clingy gf.

being clingy is acceptable some of the time...but if it persists for too long and too often...it usua;lly irritates men 90% of the tima

I have no idea, but I know as a woman, I am deathly afraid of clingy men...

i know for a fact that they are...i used to be alot more clingy when i was just getting into the dating world. i would wonder why guys would seem to not like me but i didnt realize it until i got a few years older. in fact there was one guy in particular that i used to really like and i had been tired of waiting for guys to tell me they like me so i told him first. it turned out that he had a little crush on me too, but after we started hanging out alot, i acted like he was my boyfriend sorta kinda (never ever do that until you make it official!!!) and i guess he felt like i was trying to rush him into a relationship so we never got together...i have had experience with clingy guys too tho. that is equally unappealing...too much of anybody is a bad thing i guess lol..

I think some men are, while others do not care so much. That is my experience anyway. I have never been clingy myself, but I have observed this with friends over the years.

I am 26 years old male. Yes, i think as barring someone to do some things in life might irritates. Although some men also want to get Strongly attached in relationship(full of emotions) but i think that is restricted to very small percentage. I also think many women too don't like that worldwide and that also varies from country to country, community to community.

I guess the more appropriate word is annoyed than afraid. Some men are annoyed of girlfriends who are too clingy but there are also some men who like their girlfriends clingy. It boosts their ego, I think.

Sometimes men get so annoyed when their girlfriend seemed too strict/clingy to them. So its just a manner of weighing out which moment will you be strict/clingy to them.=

I dont think, as iam not aftraid of clingy women. But some men may be afraid of clingy women. Even womens are afraid of clingy man thanks