Envy? Worried? or Missing?

Why it seem not right for you, i didn't understand yet if it is just a friend or if it is you Ex or something.. I think you should be happy for her any way, and may be take a small break and let the things cold down a bit and than after a week or to try see her again..

there are many people who have suffered this feeling.Maybe your friendship was so great in college and you keep it in your heart for so long,and it is not love between your two ladies.In fact you can see many movies involve this sepcial emotion.I think it is maybe a result of possesive over your friend.Take it easy~

I have a friend who is currently studying abroad who I miss so so much so I understand the feeling of missing your friend. However, it sounds like we are both in very different situations. It sounds like you might have feelings for your friend, maybe feelings that she doesn't know about or doesn't return. Seeing her with her boyfriend shouldn't make "just a friend" jealous, you should be happy that she's in a good, healthy relationship (assuming she is). Other than that, I don't think you should shut her out..But if you have to keep your distance in order to keep yourself together, I guess I can understand that. But have you ever told your friend about your feelings for her? It sounds like she's trying to make an effort to hang out with you. Perhaps being striaght-up honest with her is the best option here.

So you have this friend. You have been friends since college. And now she has a boyfriend and you are afraid she will forget you? Did I understand you correctly? But it looks to me that she is still reaching out to you. She hasn't forgotten you. It seems you are the one who's trying to avoid her because you don't want to feel like a third wheel. I suppose it is understandable. But I think the best thing to do is to be happy for her. And I would suggest the next time she invites you, say yes if you are free. It just means that she also wants you to share the time with her. Enjoy yourself then. =) When she just wants to spend the time with her boyfriend, she will know not to invite anyone else. =P

As you is a lady too,I don't understand why don't you wanting them to be together?Friend and lover are different concepts.As a friend,you should learn to adapt to the role as her friend.Just as you had said,"taking a break".And being happy for them.

I know your feeling... it's hurt even to me. Just broke up with my girlfriend recently...

We should be happy for our friends whenever we see them contented. I gues you are feeling this way because you are attracted to your friend? Or you are just being a selfish one. N0t wanting them to be with others except us.

For em if she one of your mylot friend why you don't see.

I really don't know.:) But it seems that you're more of like jealous... envy is too strong to describe the situation. Hmmm, however, I can't discern the reason. I'm not sure if your jealous over your friend having a bf or if your jealous of the bf. Oh well, yeah your right. You should just be for happy for her, or for them.