Is This True??

hi buenavida being hurt and being sad, being happy and being glad are all part of our human existence. We can easily tear d own those walls by being optimistic and seeing everything in a positive manner. The law of abundance will come to those who are positive and open to good things in life.Walls can tumb le and no you will not get hurt as being positive wards off unpleasant feelings so we can live a much better life.

You can't gain safety without sacrificing some of your freedoms. It's like looking at a goldfish in a fish bowl; sure it is safe, and fed all the time; but look at the quality of life it has... I feel that is what humanity is becoming...

This not necessarily true. Since we live in a dangerous world, we cannot leave our doors open. We must close the doors and windows and control what comes in. We must constantly be on guard. Like the airports, everyone and everything wanting to get on an airplane must go through careful examination and scrutiny. Life is not only about intimate love relationships. It is about a relationship with God. It is about freedom. It is about friends. It is about things a person enjoys. It is about family. We are in control of our happiness and happiness has components that each individual chooses. We learn from our past experiences and know how deep an individual can cut. We know that everyone is not the same. Still one never knows what some9ione may do. There are no guarantees. People change for the better and for the worse and we never know which way they will go. Who would have thought that one of God's angels (Satan) would turn so maliciously against his heavenly father? Who would have thought that an apostle chosen after a long night of prayer would betray God's son for a few insignificant pieces of silver? Reality is reality, it cannot be ignored or forgotten!

Hiya buenavida, I had a Friend that told me that she had built a wall of stone around her Heart as to keep out any more heartbreaks too. I can understand her in a short time she has lost her Mother and her Husband and not so long back her Father too. It´s difficult to tell someone like that that they should not be doing that. I said to her to take her time and let life heal it. But that could take Years too. Each one of us is different. We can try to open our Hearts even if it´s only every so often and see how we feel. Not everyone feels joyful every Day of his life either. If I am feeling down seeing as I have not got any Walls in particular that I am aware of feeling of Joy reaches me quickly and I can snap out of that down feeling. But there were times long time back when it was not so easy for me to do that.

I can't think that much.Why it should be a wall?Why should we create one for ourselves? Just get through everything that comes to our life whether we like it or not.That is the taste of life.

Doesn't building a wall give the pain a much stronger presence as it has left its mark!! Instead of confining oneself its better to just let go!! Allow the pain, sadness and hurt to flow out of you!! Or better yet channel it out of your body! That would give you more control of your reactions and more able to deal with whatever life has in store for you! Its not as easy as it sounds though!!!

cant think of whay anyone would build walls around them selfs the pain and hurt would get to you anyhow and with no wll joy and happiness can find you easier!

I do think its true, but if you are careful you can have joy without all the pain and sadness - oh, you'll still have some, but maybe not as much as you would if you left yourself vulnerable to everything...

Certainly, some walls are like that, but we cannot and should not try to tear down all of the walls, I think. Usually walls are there to keep out the cold and the storms and burglars and that sort of thing. But I think you are talking about personal relationships.

It is almost imposible to keep away the pain from our lives. But the pain is bigger is we have loved and lost. Yet the experience of loving is so awesome that it is far more important than the experience of loss. Joy and sadness are part of loving. To build a wall so as to not be sad is shuting out the thing that givews meaning to our life.

There is a wall I know that if you built around you such sadness and pain will prevent but the joy always with you, really your have, what is that.. A Wall of Faith to our God... thanks and see you around

When you build a wall around you, pain won't escape and love won't come in.