If a person is overweight, does it influence your opinion of them?

@firelight (1858)
Australia
November 19, 2006 12:52am CST
Do you look at them differently?
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21 responses
• New Zealand
22 Nov 06
No, I don't look at them differently. I look at peoples personalities more than the outside of them.
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@toonatoons (3737)
• Philippines
22 Nov 06
no, it does not. i have a lot of friends who are on the heavy side, and it doesn't matter, never affected the relationship in any way.
@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
19 Nov 06
No because a person should be seen as a whole being, inside and outside. I am sure that there are people who do judge someone by their weight, i.e. if they are overweight then they eat too much or the wrong food or whatever. And of course anyone who is really think must be anoxeric. LOL People who make sure judgements are very shallow and really do need to get a life. Sometimes there are medical reasons why a person is their size.
@firelight (1858)
• Australia
19 Nov 06
That's a great answer :)
@caramello (4377)
• Australia
22 Nov 06
No I don't, as it is not who the person is on the inside, and that is more important to me!
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@nightcoin (191)
• China
19 Nov 06
it depends how much overweight, if not much then it doesnot matter. But if far from standard weight, then a little. :P
• United States
19 Nov 06
It shouldnt matter how much over weight.There are people out there that are alot over weight but cant help it cause some people cant lose weight cause of a medical problem.
@firelight (1858)
• Australia
19 Nov 06
Thank you for your honest opinion!
@kaspyv (1011)
• United States
19 Nov 06
No, it doesn't change who they are!
@firelight (1858)
• Australia
19 Nov 06
Any person is different if they are thin or overweight, the ability to do things ensures that, but it doesn't make them a better or worse person. I'm wondering how many people judge them for this!
@Lillith (774)
• United States
22 Nov 06
If a person is just overweight, no that will not influence my opinion of them. However, if they are MORE than overweight, like 400 pounds, I am going to wonder why they aren't taking better care of their health.
@melody1011 (1663)
• India
22 Nov 06
No not really, I believe it is more important to judge a person for who he is rather than what he looks like. Looks come and go but the person inside remains always
@Mahindan (563)
• Canada
22 Nov 06
No it doesn't and i think it should not bother anyone. I have friends who are on the plump size and i get mad if someone as much as make rude comment about them. Most of the time it is a medical condition. The main reason is thyroid gland and people are not aware of it.
@ausnikki (4054)
• Brisbane, Australia
22 Nov 06
Not at all,I judge people on how they treat me and others.Their weight or lack thereof has no influence
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
21 Nov 06
No it does not I go by personality not by looks I never have
@Bunny2 (2102)
• Australia
22 Nov 06
No - no one is perfect and we shouldn't expect them to be.
@cigano (1276)
• Nigeria
22 Nov 06
Nop!!! PS- everyone that posts in my discussions is rated!!!
@yourpress (307)
• United States
22 Nov 06
depends how much overweight
@Nahara (1673)
• Israel
19 Nov 06
No, they are human beings like all of us, why should I look at them diferently ???
@beckyomg1 (6756)
• United States
19 Nov 06
no i dont because i feel that i am overweight too and i dont want people judging me.so i dont judge them.
@Thewishlady (1057)
• Netherlands
19 Nov 06
No absolutly not... Why should it..? Friendship is about who somebody are and not about what they look.
19 Nov 06
Absolutely not ! I do know alot of overweight people and they are fun people. Normally people that are overweight are fun to be with!
@pedumfio (667)
• Canada
19 Nov 06
I don;t, but as an overwieght person, yes I do think that people look at mee differently, my husband thinks i'm paranoid and it's all in my head.
• Portugal
19 Nov 06
Yes, she or he needs to do diet and need to protect her health