I have deleted my referral here.

India
February 6, 2011 7:14am CST
Few days back I deleted my referral here because the person was not working at all. I have got two new referrals and I have no idea from where they got the link but from the day they joined they have not responded to a single discussion. I sent them message but they are still not active. What should I do now? Should I delete them also. I don't have any other contact from them so I think I have no other option. Sending them message again does't work either. What is your opinion about it?
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23 responses
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
6 Feb 11
I have many referrals who joined and never responded to the PM that I sent them and never posted anything at all or updated their profiles. I never deleted any of them. Then one day one came back almost two years after joining and started posting I never cancel any of mine. Hopefully one day they will wake up and become active
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6 Feb 11
You pretty much just described my post.
• India
6 Feb 11
Maybe then I have done a little mistake by doing that, but I don't get happy when I see them just inactive for so many days. I think I don't have a good patience that is why I have done that. I agree with your post. Thanks for the advise. :)
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
6 Feb 11
You may have deleted them from your 'friends' list but that does not delete them as your referral. Only deleting them from your referrals list will do that (or their account being closed).
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@manleyjoe (1597)
• United States
7 Feb 11
I would never delete one for being inactive. I remember joining several programs where I did nothing for several months until I had check them out and got time to do what was needed to earn a good income. If something looks promising I will join when I first hear of it, that way I am high in the pecking order if it takes off.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
6 Feb 11
hi dear, I think need not delete them. There may be several reasons for someone to not to respond. It it be as your asset for ever and leave them behind. If they want, they will do. Forget and not to delete. Meanwhile, after some time if they go ahead with? So, being in your list is not a burden for you but feel as a nuisance. Just forget for the time being and you type and earn. This is my policy. I am here almost a year now. I don't have a single referral still I will make sure that every month I need a transfer from myLto to the paypal account. It is my handwork and I don't mind what others do for here. You know Sanjay, here in our country people are so pessimistic and it is hard them to have a faith in such things. You go ahead and if they feel good, they will do it. Once you get some good earning, send your proof, sometime they will open their eyes. Thank-s
• India
6 Feb 11
So you have a good spirit and zeal to do the hard work. I have respect for you and I think you should keep doing what you are doing right now. Good luck friend and have a nice day/night ahead.
@fl0rencia (414)
• Philippines
7 Feb 11
It's better if you don't delete your referrals. They won't do any harm anyways. Maybe one day they'll get active.
@manleyjoe (1597)
• United States
7 Feb 11
could be that they are still looking for time to work it.
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@stevieboi19 (1419)
6 Feb 11
Why would you delete them there's always the hope that they might start seeing the potential of mylot and if you've went and deleted them your not going to earn anything if they see some sense in the site. I myself joined this site four years ago roughly and forgot about it until I found it again recently and was told my account was already registered so there's always hope for your referrals if I've come back to mylot after four years.
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
6 Feb 11
You proved my point! We never know when they will decide to poke about and see what they have been missing.
• India
6 Feb 11
I would like to thank you for telling me here your own story. I will never delete the referrals again. Yes I agree that some day people will know about its potential and then they might start working here. I just needed your opinion. Good luck to you with your referrals.
@cathy1990 (220)
• Philippines
6 Feb 11
Me even if they are not active I will not delete them because they just my relative and i just tell them any time to put some discussion in mylot so i can earned more. just delete them because you don't have a proper communication it's useless and you don't even know them. just find another referral that is active. Good luck
• India
6 Feb 11
I think you are just like me, who take the decisions very fast, but after reading the thoughts of the all people here I think it is a mistake to delete anyone. One day they can understand the importance of it and they might start using it. I don't have any relative here and if they were here then it could have been more easy for me.
@ladygator (3465)
• United States
7 Feb 11
I dont have any referrals. I never have in all my time here. So I dont know how important they are. My earnings are not so great. But thats okay with me. I am not the best at posting each day. But i am getting better. I guess I would not worry about it at all when it comes to what they are doing.
@34momma (13882)
• United States
8 Feb 11
i would just leave them, you never know if they will come back and want to be active. them just sitting there isn't hurting you. yeah it might be a drag to see they are not active, but it is what it is. leave them don't delete them
@amirev777 (4117)
• India
5 Mar 11
Hi even 70% of my referals are not active. In fact there are only 2 or three referrals who are somewhat active on myLot, and I hardly earn from them. I agree that an inactive referral is of no use, but I dont believe in deleting them. Who knows some day they might get some motivation and start posting actively on myLot.
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
12 Mar 11
Hi. sanjay91422. Well I think that should just wait it all out. I wanted to get rid of my referral too, but she has posted a lot on myLot in the past. And since I have been a member, I never see that much of her. She may come and post every blue moon or so.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
7 Feb 11
Well, I suggest you not deleted them. Because who knows that there is a time they though being active here. Like me before. I am inactive in 7 months until I realize to post a discussion on how to earn here. Which give an idea to be an active member... There are many reasons for new members for not being active. They maybe not relate on the site given opportunity or not relate on any topics...
@millertime (1394)
• United States
8 Feb 11
I definitely wouldn't delete them. A lot of people join programs and aren't active right away. They may or may not ever be active in the program but there is always a chance that they will. Keep them as your referral in case they decide to start using MyLot but even if they don't, having them won't do you any harm.
@syoti20 (5292)
• Philippines
24 Feb 11
I recommend not to delete them.Because who knows in the near future they might come back and used their account. If that happens the credit will not be credited to you anymore. Because you already deleted them. STOP sending them messages, because you and that person didn't agreed or deal. If you do, then I guess you might. Sending messages is like spamming and invading their freedom and privacy. You just refer them that's it.
@margeryann (1845)
• United States
8 Feb 11
I don't have any referrals here but I do on other sites I've joined and a lot of them aren't active but some of them weren't for a while then came back and forth on being active. You deleted them you are taking a chance on losing out on a referral. Keeping them shouldn't hurt anything even if they never became active.
@kamit24 (1454)
• India
7 Feb 11
My referals are not working since the last 5 years...but I'm still keeping them is there any specific reason for deleting them..as even if they are not working you can keep them like may be some day they will start working..I think there is not harm in keeping them but still if you want to delete them then go ahead as they are not adding anything in ur income....gud luck :)
@derek_a (10873)
7 Feb 11
I would never delete any of my referral at all because I tend to think that one day they may want to become active and if I have deleted them, they are gone for good. I don't think there's any rules about not deleting them, so it doesn't matter if they stay where they are, and I've got a lot of referrals that are inactive. _Derek
@nainesh1 (1656)
• India
7 Feb 11
I had deleted over 30 referrals that were inactive for more than 2 years , I got them from chat friends on yahoo messenger. Just couldn't understand that those people spent hours there without making a penny and they don't want to join here with making money for almost same what they are doing there. So i deleted them now I have 4 and one is active.
@zweeb82 (5653)
• Malaysia
7 Feb 11
Well, you'll never know one day the sleeping giants might just awake? But then again, having them deleted cancels out that chance obviously. I've got a few as well that are sleeping at the moment but who knows one day....who knows....haha!~
• India
7 Feb 11
I don’t think that you should have deleted your referrals. If you had kept in-active referrals I don’t think it would have affected you in any way. You may never know when a person may come back and start using mylot. Deleting referrals is just of no use, It is like cutting your income. Someday they could have returned and helped you earn money but now it won’t affect you at all.
@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
7 Feb 11
I have a few referral too in this site, they are not active at all since the first day, I will just let they be there and let them disappear by themselves. From the first day I knew that they are not a active referral, I have already gave up hope on them, so just let them be who they wanted to be.